Channeling Erik

May31st

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Teen Shit

Posted in: After Death Communication, Bipolar disease, Channeling, Communication from the dead, Contact with the dead, Death, Death of a Child, Death of a sibling, Energy, Ghosts and Spirits, Kim O'Neill, Loss of a sibling, Love, Mental illness, Messages from the dead, Psychic medium, Sibling relationships, Struggles, Suicide

In this part of the channeling session with Kim O’Neill, Erik discusses self-esteem issues and delivers messages for his sisters and brother. Let’s begin.

Me: What, other than past life issues, really affected your self-esteem, Erik? I mean, why? What happened to you?

Erik, shrugging: Just typical shit. Typical teenage shit.

Kim: Erik, could you be a bit more descriptive for your mom?

Me. chuckling: That was never a strong point of his.

Erik, shrugging again: Just typical teenage shit! You get together a thousand kids from 16 to 20, or even a million, and ask them from all over the world how’s their self-esteem and they’d say it’d depend on the time of day, if they smoked lately, and lots of other things.

Me: Did you take any pills on the day you died, Erik? Were you under the influence of any mind altering chemicals?

I spent 30 minutes or so with him just prior to his death and he seemed pretty stone-cold sober. Just solemn.

Erik: No, nothing.

Me: Did the medication the psychiatrist prescribe have anything to do with your suicide?

He was taking two medications for his bipolar disease, Lamictal and Abilify.

Erik: No, not at all. But that medication didn’t really help. That medication is going to be taken off the market, because of the negative impact it has on kids and teenagers.

Kim: Do you think if you hadn’t been on that medication, you would still have killed yourself?

Erik: Yes, I think I would have. The medication didn’t really influence my decision and it didn’t help me either. That’s why you got it for me, right Mom?

Me: Yeah. So Erik, did you understand how loved you were when you were here on the earthly plane?

Erik: I really never thought about shit like that. Kids don’t think about that shit.

Me, sadly: Yeah, I guess not.

Erik: Kids only notice when they’re not loved.

Me: Oh, wow, that’s true.

Kim: Erik is saying things that are so wise, Elisa. He’s evolved so much in the spiritual world.

Erik: Kids take things for granted when they’re loved. They only really notice when they feel like they’re not loved. So I guess I was pretty damn loved! (chuckling) Now I know, of course. And I knew when I was there, but I just really never thought about it. I just figured that was, you know, Mom and Dad stuff. Oh, and Mom, I like to call Kristina “Krissie” now, because I know that will irritate the dog shit out of her. It’s like a little brother being obnoxious. I love teasing her. I tell her, ‘Hey Krissie, hang in there cuz it’s gonna get easier. Love ya.’ And I’m really proud of Michelle as a mother. I tell her ‘I’m glad you got your fucking shit together.’ That’s my personal message for her. For Lukas, I wanna just tell him, ‘Everything’s cool, man. I know there’s a girl you like. Go for it, man!’ For Annika, I’d like to tell her, ‘I’m okay now and you should let go of your worries. That family is gonna be fine. I love you, Akka Baby.’

This was always his favorite nickname for his little sister!

Next, we begin the Ask Erik submissions. I have around 11 or 12 readers who have submitted questions to Erik about departed loved ones, the direction their lives are taking, and many other issues. I’m very proud of the wisdom Erik’s provided and the incredible amount of energy he has sacrificed in channeling this valuable information.

Today is Memorial Day, a day for honoring those soldiers who have fought to preserve our freedom and way of life. Today, Memorial Day is a time that I will also honor another type of soldier, one who has persevered in his own personal war, fighting dragons and demons within. He stayed as long as he could for us, the ones he loves so dearly.  I love you my sweet, brave soldier.

Erik and Michelle

Pappa, "Krissie," "Akka Baby" and Lukas

  • Kristina

    Dear Erik,

    Thoroughly annoyed.

    Mission accomplished.

    Love,

    Kristina

    ;)

  • http://WebsiteURL Michelle Medhus

    Oh Erik, trust me – I am glad I got my “sheet” together too. I must give you some credit though. Your death flipped on an internal switch in me that has made me a happier person. Sounds fucked up, but it’s true. I am not happy because you died. Not one bit. You know that already. The reason I am a happier person is because your death served as a catalyst that enabled me to view people and life in a much more positive way. I owe my life to you. Keep up the badass work bruddah!!!

  • http://WebsiteURL Italia

    Good day, I am new to the board. I would like to make some comments here and also, I have a question for Erik, if it is ok. First let me say that I have had an interest in the after-life ever since I was a little girl due my mother, having died in a terrible car accident. She was 27 years old at the time and left behind a husband and 4 beautiful little children. After her departure from our lives, our lives were hell due to my father’s grief and trying to find his way back to normal after losing the love of his life. So you might say her death influenced me to seek higher answers. I was born in the South to an extremely spritual family. I come from a family of educators, and ministers from many generations. While I do not consider myself extremely spritual I think the combination of education and spritual backgrounds have given me the balance to seek spritual truth as we all should. It givres balance to our lives. In doing my research on death, I read many years ago the Seth material, it was my foray into metaphyisics and focus on the beyond in a more intelligent way then the way I was taught as a child. I walked away with the conclusion, that the faith of our childhoods and seeking truth and God in our adulthoods are very close. Some of my closest friends are seekers too. In fact my best friend sent me the email of the article in the Huffington Post and I logged on. I think I’ve read non stop, comparing what I have learned thus far with what Eric is saying to this point and I had to stop and make some comments and have questions. I want to say first, Dr., your grief and hurt of losing Eric is very palpable and with what your desires ae to begin a Foundation in his name are awe inspiring, however I think to mention this on this blog in the manner that you just did is a little mistrusting. Are you doing this becaue you are so racked with grief that you blame yourself for Eric’s death? Is this blog really just a manifestation of releasing your guilt as a phyiscian, why didn’t I see this coming? Now you are discussing possible medications he may have been on at the time of the suicide, that sheds a lot of light on this tragic, tragic loss. So I just wondererd about that. Now for Eric. Eric, your mother asked you about God. You have spent very little time on that subject. Why? I think the single most importatnt aspect that those of us who are seekers want to know about the afterlife is G-O-D period. At least I do. Is God energy, which I think he/she/it is. I think energy plays a huge part in our life on the earthly plane and our ife on the other side. So who and what is God and what is hell? Is there a place for the hopeless sinners? (See that is a phrase from my childhood, but I think it applies if you look at the world today. And lastly, I understand truth in print and your mother wants you to be honest, however, why would you say that about President Obama, Sarah Palin and Beck? Now I could be wrong but if God is about truth and zen like atmosphere, there is no way you can put it out there that Sarah Palin of all people should become President with BECK for God’s sake. That gave me pause and a lot of doubt. So here’s one for you. Tell me about my mother. And I am not asking for facts. I know them already. So I would like to know, how is her soul? IS she still there? She died in 1958 in the car accident. I would like to know did she die in the car or at the hospital. I was 2 going on 3 or 3 going on 4 when she died. I can’t remember her at all, except for two instances, can you tell me what those were.

    Kind thanks. I would say have a nice life, but it sounds as if you are aleady.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      I truly admire your quest for the truth. I wish more people did the same. As for your comments, the whole “Starting a Foundation” thing is not anywhere in my universe right now. It’s something said and I have absolutely no interest in that now. My goal is to help Erik by giving him a way to feel fulfilled and this seems to be what he wants. As far as guilt, of course every mother, every parent, every sibling wonders if they could have done something. Erik went to a psychiatrist AND a wonderful therapist every week. The psychiatrist managed his medication. I tried to encourage (beg, really) Erik to get past life regression but he refused. In the end, it’s up to the individual. But there was never a day I didn’t tell Erik I loved him, every phone call, every night, every morning. We did a lot together: listening to music in his truck, going mountain biking together. In other words, we were very close. Intuitively, I knew suicide was a possibility and I did everything I could to prevent it and everything I could to help him feel loved and valued. Sadly, bipolar disease is often a terminal illness.

      I still plan on asking Erik more about God. I agree his answers are sketchy. Remember, he’s not omniscient and he’s still learning and progressing on the other side. As for the Beck/Obama thing, sometimes you just need comic relief. I don’t think that will come to pass and I think Erik is just pulling our leg. Who knows. I just can’t always dwell on the heavy stuff. Life is heavy enough for me right now. Just the daily decision to stay alive is hard enough so please try not to judge. That’s the universe’s job, not ours.

  • http://WebsiteURL Italia

    Thank you Dr. Medhus for your responses. I think it all makes sense. I could sense you and Eric were very close from my readings thus far. I like how you include the photographs of the family and his interactions with the family. I am not a phyiscian however, I was told once that I am a healer by a medium from the essence of my spirit. It is very unfortunate that the pharmaceutical companys create these medications that not (maliciously so) I don’t believe, still great harm to us as human beings. I am not a Dr. but I do not advocate giving these types of mind altering drugs to young people. I know sometimes it becomes a necessary evil, but how do we know if it causes more harm than good. Small children are being given these medications and I just think, this cannot be good. Eric felt that it had nothing to do with his demise, and that may be how he looked at it, but I think the jury may still be out. At any rate Elisa, I think at some point in Eric’s journey on the spritual plan, you may still have to let him go, and let him soar. I was a little concerned about the dialogue you had with him about joining him and exploring different solar systems. Please do not give in to despair. Eric is free now. YOu have other children that need you and need your love. Do not remove yourself from “their” equation as well. God bless and heal you from your pain.

    Please submit my questions to Erick regarding my mother when you are able. I am always seeking news of her and wondering if she is near. I have never received (to my knowledge a visit from her) and have always wondered that she left small children in her wake, how she felt about that and the events that ocurred after her death with her nuclear family. I hope she is well and dancing among the stars and her beauty remains ( in her life on earth she looked just like the singer Sade) she as absolutely beautiful. Tell Eric to tell her, her children loved her and is she with my father today and have they healed from her tragic death so many years ago.

    Kind thanks,

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Hey Italia, I agree with you about medications. Many of them do more harm than good. Plus they are so necessarily profit motivated while many natural substances or remedies work better. No one tries to push these often safer remedies because they can’t make money off of them. Sad. Love goes a long way where medicines don’t.

      As far as letting Erik go, this is a misconception. There is no place that they “go.” There is the earthly plane and the afterlife with a portal in between. He plays and works now in the afterlife and comes to hang out with family when he wants. He visited my daughter, Michelle, yesterday in fact. This made her so happy!! His “life’s work” now is helping others like you. This is his way of “soaring.” He loves it, but he’s no workaholic, never has been. He likes to play too, as you can probably see. Maybe eventually souls return to some big energy source when they’ve fully evolve. I really don’t know. There is so much I don’t know.

      As for giving in to despair, of course I need to be here for those here whom I love and who need me. It’s difficult to lose any child, but it gives me comfort that he;s as happy as he’s ever been. Thank you for your concern. I’ll be alright as long as I have people I can help. Love you!

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