Channeling Erik

January2nd

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I went camping in one of the state parks Sunday and Monday, and the minute I entered our camper, my eyes lit on a bit of sparkle. It was confetti from a New Years Eve party we had there in 2009–the last New Year’s party Erik enjoyed. It was not there when we closed up the camper on our last camping trip, so I suspect this is Erik’s way of saying, “Happy 2012!”

Happy New Year, Erik Style

 

Now, many of you know the tragic story of Ben Breedlove, the young man who died from complications of a cardiomyopathy. These two videos were made just prior to his death on Christmas day. Although I plan to have Erik bring him forth for an interview, I think his accounts of his NDEs from age four on suggest he was here to teach us that death is nothing to fear and life is something to seize with joy and fervor. Thanks, Jahmaiah, for these poignant and powerful YouTubes.

Part One

http://youtu.be/tmlTHfVaU9o

Part Two

http://youtu.be/a4LSEXsvRAI

Now for the bad news. I made a big boo-boo! Not the first and definitely not the last! Sorry about the inconvenience, but Kristina says I should not have you all fill the other nomination sites with specific choices, because those will obviously get the same number of votes, jeopardizing our chances to win. Also, I gave you the wrong URL. It has recently changed. So, if you feel Channeling Erik has added anything positive to your life, please RE-nominate our blog at this link: 2012.bloggi.es, or click on the button located in the sidebar to the right. Please cast your ballot for the following (you have to nominate three blogs for every category for which you cast a ballot. Just pick random blogs by searching under “religion blogs” or Spirituality blogs,” and “Fashion blogs.” If you’ve already voted, your second vote will erase your first. I know it takes some effort, but this is super important to all of us!

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  • Pete Janssen

    I saw this the other day… I have mixed feelings now when anyone dies… On the one hand, if they’re young, I get sort of upset by it but on the other hand I know they’re doing well and having a great time in the after-life… This is why everyone needs to know that after you die it’s all going to be ok… Just so their families can cope with the grief better or even at all… Just like Erik said it should be a celebration almost… Anyway… Happy 2012 everyone… Pete

    • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_2E5QK7ALAHXGJPDMPLT5BM77AI iola

      I agree, Pete. Andy told me we would all get to the place where we would celebrate one’s going home..seems hard to imagine, but he is probably right. He IS happy now..so I have to find joy in that. Still…got choked up watching this beautiful young man. Hope he is chilling with Erik and the gang now. xox

  • http://www.channelingmyself.com/ Todd

    I agree with what Pete said. While it is sad to see someone go we have to realize they are happy where they went.

    • http://www.channelingerik.com Elisa Medhus, MD

      That’s my struggle every day. I’m so happy for Erik yet I’m so sad that I don’t have him here to hug, to take out to lunch, to go mountain biking, to listen to music with, etc.

  • Stanley

    Hello Elisa,

    Firstly, I wanted to say that the confetti was a great sign from Erik. **hugs** I also wanted to comment about not fearing death. Back when I met Sandra, I was very much a athist and with a family history of heart issues, any pain I was at the ER to have it checked out. The family history for example, my dad’s 47 and had 9 different heart attacks. How he keeps living, he’s got to have someone watching over him. Although I think if he looked after his health a bit better besides living on smokes and soda he might be better.

    Anyway, back on topic, it was reading this blog and Erik talking about his passing and such that really took a lot of the fear away. And just recently I had a very interesting dream. I don’t know if it was a past death or something. But in the dream, this man had shot me in the head. A few seconds later my mouth had this blood but thicker, almost like jelly. It’s difficult to explain.

    A few seconds later the man rolled my body off a high area. I just remember falling. I knew I was about to die. But for the most part, I wasn’t really scared. I was just nervious about the actual transition to spirit. So on the way down waiting to hit the ground I just softly said I loved my friend Pam. But instead of feeling my body hit the ground, my soul popped out. I just sort of floated out of the body mid fall. That’s when I woke up.

    I realized by this dream that I very much love my friends who are in spirit, but most importantly, I don’t fear death anymore. When my time comes, I won’t fear it. Not many people can say that. Weird dreams, what can ya do? LOL.

    Then, on the subject of NDE’s, the first 3 days Sandra was at the hospital, she had a heart attack. This was back in May 2011. Her heart had stopped and was dead. But thankfully the doctor got her heart going again. A week later she decided to share with me her near death experience. She told me when she died, she found herself standing in front of Pam. No words were exchanged she said. But she said that Pam just gave a look that she understood to mean that she needed to go back. That I wasn’t ready for her to leave.

    Hell, I don’t think anyone would be “ready” for a loved one to die. But I guess who ever was in charge, decided that her death was not the right time yet. Or maybe it was one exit point and she choose to take a later one and come back for a little longer. So Sandra said she didn’t want to leave me and knowing she would have to come back to being in pain, she had done it for me anyway. If that’s not love for someone, I don’t know what is. She was willing to come back and be in pain just so I wouldn’t be alone. Man, she had me in tears. But good tears. :) So those people out there who say NDE’s are just dreams or illusions are full of it. So that’s my two cents on this topic. :)

    -Stanley

    • http://www.channelingerik.com Elisa Medhus, MD

      Stanley you have enough material for a great book!

      • Stanley

        Hello Elisa,

        Lot’s of people have suggested I write a book actually. Writing a biography on some web page is one thing. But it’s quite another to put a book into chapters and all that, as you well know. Then there is the money to hire someone to go over it and then paying to get it published into a book. Then, I’m not like famous or important or anything. And then who would want to buy a book about some regular ordinary guy like me? It would suck to go through all that to sell maybe one or two copies.

        Now if my channeling got as good as Ryan, Jason or even Kim or Jamie then maybe someone would want to buy a book to know how that came to be. That’s why I got Kim’s books and yours. I was interested in how you got to where you both are. Your famous now Elisa! :)

        I don’t know, who knows what the future has in store for me. But thanks much for the suggestion. And I know, just wrote a hella long post again. Start out wanting to post something short and end up with a mini book….lol. Isn’t ADHD grand! :)

        -Stanley

      • Jason Shapeofacloud

        I posted this today on my website. I was thinking of those like Stanley who have experienced trouble with Spiritual Communication. Perhaps it will help future readers who struggle to materialize what they see.

        Problems with Spiritual Communication:

        I run across folks who say, “I am just not good at…[ ]…”I don’t believe I can….[ ]…”, “I’ve tried and I cant make it work. I don’t understand”

        I think they are closer to being in touch with consciously creating their reality than they realize. To say these phrases implies a certain amount of inherent Faith on their part that what they desire is possible but that due to their beliefs that it’s unlikely to happen. Faith will only carry you as far as belief can manifest. Faith is a form of visualization. It follows belief. You can not manifest your reality unless you can see yourself in it. It is a conscious acknowledgement of belief. It is the feeling visualized. Although, how in depth this is expressed can vary greatly and is always expressed in degree that one’s belief is understood. The degree one identifies with this belief will sustain or dissolve how much feeling one associates with any manifested reality.

        All this is to simply say that Spiritual communication entails a great deal of visualization based on beliefs. To have faith that Spiritual communication is possible is not enough to make it likely to happen. When what you believe is understood you can re-examine yourself to see if it is an accurate representation of your reality. If your reality includes Spiritual communication then the faith in your ability to visualize and communicate will never be in question. It will just be a matter of fact. What remains then will be a matter of learning to understand and master the experience as opposed to reconnecting with something you lack.

        Visualization is akin to imagination only in degree that that you associate it with your personal reality. Just because what you imagine is something you desire or not, does not mean that it lacks validity or realness. The associations made in cooperation with your mind are not limited to a series of bio-electrical signals in a physical dimension. All thought comes from Spiritual dimensions and so it’s context is valid regardless of what belief you assign it. Where people get hung up is in their desire to manifest. Just because you desire something doesn’t mean it will manifest. What manifests will be dependent on how you visualize your beliefs. Don’t like it? Then examine your beliefs and put the time and energy into visualizing new ones.

        That said, I’d like to share a visualization technique I’ve found useful and enjoyable. I am not sure what to call it.
        At various points in my life I’ve felt the fear that I was loosing the ability to remember my departed loved one’s or places from childhood I treasured. This was especially true at my grandparents funeral when I knew their house had been sold off. I lamented that I would never see them or it again. I worried that I would not be able to hold the events, experiences and settings in my mind.

        So what I did was to picture myself standing in my grandparents house. No one expect myself was there. It was in the middle of the day. I imagined myself to be from a time where I had felt fond memories of them and my time there. I then closed my eyes and sat somewhere quiet, where I wouldn’t be distracted or disturbed. Somewhere where I had a good half hour to be undisturbed. In my mind, I pictured myself slowly walking from room to room. I walked around each room and looked as close as I could to each and every part of it. I looked at the carpet, I studied how it felt, looked. I gazed at the color, texture of the furniture. I looked at the dust on the shelves, at the way the light hit the walls. I studied all the decor and then thought about how I was feeling as I was doing this. As I worked at this I found I could get better at it and recall more and more. I also found that I could do this with other rooms from my childhood. Rooms in my own home, rooms in my church, school and outdoors. Then I tried it with people. I also used photos to help me get started. I’d start with their hair, move down their skin and study all the parts of their skin. I visualized how they smelt, and that lead me to recalling how they sounded. I guess I’d call this technique, “The slow imaginative lingering gaze”. I’ve even used this in clairvoyant experiences. Where I cease all desire for communication in lieu of slowly gazing at what I could see. Lingering on detail. Letting go of any desire to understand the realness of the experience and simply surrendering to looking. Not worrying about truth and simply letting myself give into the feel of quietly looking.

        When you can allow yourself to quietly look, you will be able to feel what you visualize. What you experience is only limited by faith in your imagination. What you can imagine will always be ruled by what you believe about yourself in any experienced reality. Examine what you believe and you can understand what you Spiritually communicate.

      • http://www.channelingerik.com Elisa Medhus, MD

        Hurray, Jason is back!!

  • Anonymous

    I just voted – best of luck to you and Erik! :)
    XOXOX

  • Kerrie aus

    I watched this yesterday and cried. He wasn’t scared but he didn’t want to go. My son died of a heart attack at 19 after being roughed up by club bouncers.Did you notice Ben’s last name. Co incidence or not?

    • http://www.channelingerik.com Elisa Medhus, MD

      I thought about the same thing. I plan to interview him after he gets a chance to get his bearings.