Channeling Erik

June21st

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How to Recover from Your Past and Skeptics

Posted in: After Death Communication, Afterlife, belief, Channeling, Death, Forgiveness, Human Experience, Immortality, Love, Proof in the spirit world, Proof of the Afterlife, Skepticism, Skeptics, Spiritual enlightenment, Struggles, Suffering

If you’re like me, you probably have made decisions that, upon reflection, make you cringe. How could I have been so naive? So petty? So clueless? So thoughtless? So lazy? So hurtful? So selfish? So irresponsible? Boy, my past is littered with some real stupid choices in my childhood, my adolescence, my young adulthood, and now my middle-aged years. And I know I have plenty of dumb choices in my future. For some reason, those past transgressions don’t seem to bother me much, but for others, they’re like heavy chains that drag them down in a deep sea of misery. It affects the way they perceive themselves, others and their outlook for the future. So I asked Erik what advice he could share for those who are paralyzed by their past.

Channeling Transcript

Me: Erik, I know some people who have had a checked past, or at least they might see it as checkered even when I don’t.  And they just seem to feel such unworthiness because of it.

Erik: And they don’t move forward cuz they’re looking back?

Me: Yeah, that, and–

Erik: It’s okay to look back at the crap we’ve done in our lives.

Me: But, if that–

Erik: Hang on a sec. What I’m saying is it’s okay to look back, but with a different perspective. Like maybe someone looks back on when they did heroin when they were 14, 15 years old.

Me: Okay.

Erik: And they’re looking at that through the maturity and judgment of a 40 year old who knows better. But they weren’t old and mature at that time. They were just a little twerp. So that’s one thing. The other thing is, there are no bad choices. It’s all about what you do with them. Do you look for the lesson they hold and apply it to your life or do you use it for a club for you to beat yourself up with? Do you take that lesson and learn to love yourself and others or do you walk the path of fear and grow to hate yourself and others?

Me: You make the choice seem so easy, Erik, but it’s not!

Erik: Of course it is! Just look back at the event and see yourself as someone who is now very, very different. It’s almost like you’re a different SELF now compared to back then. And if you haven’t already done it, mine that mistake for all the pearls. Find the lessons and apply them to your life now.

Me: How can people heal when they’ve already taken the club to themselves?

Erik: They can visualize that past other self and send it love. Wrap your past self in love and say to it, “It’s going to be fine. It’s not bad what you did. It just IS. You made those choices for a reason. Time to learn, forgive, love, be grateful for the chance to fuck up and then move on.

Me: Grateful?

Erik: Hell, yeah! When you fuck up, it’s like a turbo boost for spiritual growth, but only if you mine that fuck up for the pearls instead of wallowing around in it.

Me: Like a pig in shit?

Erik (chuckles): I was gonna say that, but I thought that might be a little harsh, Mom.

Me: Oops. But it’s true. Sometimes we relish our pity parties.

Erik: Especially if we think we deserve to be punished with all our self-chastising.

Me: Yeah. So learn, forgive, be grateful, love and move on.

Erik: You got it, Mom!

Me: Okay. Now, let’s talk more about skeptics. A lot of blog members have to deal with skeptics at work, in their families and among their friends. Some even read the blog in hiding. I guess they’re afraid their families will put ‘em in the looney bin. So why are skeptics so bent on ridiculing spirituality?

Erik: Well, like I said before, some are there to coax us into strengthening our faith. I mean, look at you, Mom! You’re own skepticism made you search for proof and study the science behind all this stuff. So yeah, to prove a skeptic wrong, sometimes we have to force ourselves to study, do research, reflect inwardly and everything.

Me: So now that there’s so much evidence for the soul’s survival of death, why do we still have so many closed-minded skeptics?

Erik: Oh, it’s all just about fear. Think about it, Mom. Everyone has a vested interest in whether or not there is something more after death. But these skeptics you’re talking about are too afraid to trust the research or their intuition or any shred of evidence because–oh my god–what if they find out it’s not true?! That would be an unbearable loss for them. So they’re rather have no hope for an afterlife than to have hope only to have it taken away. It takes courage and strength to trust and have faith and have hope. Skeptics live in fear. They tend to be cowards who prefer to stick their heads up their asses. So like, they can sit there, head up their ass, and say, “so and so is wrong about the sun being the center of our solar system.” They’re afraid cuz what if they really look at the evidence and start to believe something that other people consider far-fetched? What happens when someone else proves that the moon is really the center? They don’t wanna come off looking stupid. In the case of the afterlife, though, they don’t wanna have false hopes.

Me: Well, I guess they’ll find out eventually.

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And now, I’m hoping everyone can help blog member, Melanie. Her email explains it all:

Hey Elisa. Melanie here. I just found out that I am pregnant. Totally NOT planned and very unexpected. I can not help but think that Kara had something to do with it! Even with birth control, it has happened, and it turns out my due date is right around Kara’s birthday.
I was wondering if you could ask everyone in the CE family to say a couple prayers for me and baby.

1) That it sticks, and I don’t go through any more loss or grief.
2) That this pregnancy is an enjoyable one. ( My last one I was in premature labor on and off from 28 weeks. )
3) That I have a very safe and uneventful delivery. ( Again, my last one was a nightmare. I reacted to the epidural, and it was just very scary and all natural delivery for my 10lb son! )
4) Finally, that this baby will be a blessing. I am so scared of feeling resentment for this baby. After being done with babies, and losing Kara.. I just do not understand why Kara had to be taken away and this one possibly brought into the world. I am struggling very much.

I have my 1st ultrasound tomorrow to see how far along I am, so any prayers and great vibes sent out would be sooo appreciated. Also, if anyone can contact Eric to see if Kara is ok with this… make sure that she knows this was not planned and would NEVER be a replacement of her… I need to know that she is with me, and that everything with this will be ok.
Thank you so much Elisa.
All my love,

Melanie

 

 

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  • Yvonne

    Erik and you said something profound that I want to underline. In the discussion of past hurts, he mentioned that you can send yourself forgiveness and love – which is nothing more than a form of spiritual healing. This is in fact a technique that is taught by Kwan Yin and other Guides, that one can send energetic healing TO ONESELF in other lives, dimensions, incarnations or even next week. This is not a joke or a game, it is REAL.

    I hope we can talk more about healing and how healing really happens, and how much power we have to effect healing. We need some practical techniques. I also recommend that most readers learn some kind of pranic or reiki healing. You don’t need a doctor (no offense Elisa) but it is there for EVERYONE. I am beginning to see more and more that our collective ascension is about healing as many as possible including ourselves. What a concept! God we need this!

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      I wish I had the time to learn some of these things. My daughter Michelle is taking a Nu-Reiki course but I’m hoping whatever practical healing tips you know, Yvonne, you’ll consider sharing. It’s probably something you have to show though, right? And no offense taken. I have more of a jaded view of Western medicine than you can imagine. A lot of the way I’ve practiced medicine was not very conventional. I got to know my patients, befriend them and give them love and compassion. It seemed to work but until I heard of energy healing I really never saw the connection.

  • Tracy Lamont

    God Bless you, Melanie…and your precious new baby.
    I feel certain this is all Kara’s idea. She’ll be co-ordinating things from her side and she’ll make sure the right ‘spirit’ gets the job of joining your loving family. There will be a lot of interaction between her and the baby’s spirit between now and the birth so don’t be surprised if your new baby – as time goes on – shows signs of being aware of a familiar friendly face being in the room.
    This is a blessing for you, Melanie.
    Take care now,
    Much love,
    Tracy XX

  • Jane

    Thanks so much for this post Elisa. Your questions & clarifications and what Erik had to say were very helpful. I actually get periodic flashbacks of stupid or embarrassing things I’ve done & I’m so ashamed I just want to curl up in a ball and disappear. Some things just happened, accidents, not choices. It’s hard to tell yourself it’s ok b/c there were people around you when you made your mistakes who remember and who know that about you. I don’t think they care much of course, much more concerned with their own lives, but it’s hard knowing you can’t erase your past or that memory others have of you.

    I would love to know how you are able to not let past mistakes bother you too much. Clearly that is the optimum way to live one’s life, it seems to me anyway! :)

    Loved the part about skeptics. Erik put it so well. I am definitely a skeptic at times but I am also very open to new possibilities in that I will listen to my intuition, even if my brain is unsure, and will let it lead me.

    Thanks again!

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      I don’t know, I guess I just don’t take myself seriously? I’ve always taught my kids the value of failure-that they are steppingstones to success. I’ve learned, over the decades, to embrace who I am flaws and all.

  • Tony

    Many prayers and good thoughts toward Melanie. :-)

  • http://books.tonybarone.com Tony

    It never ceases to amaze me how, on so many occasions, your blog posts are exactly what I needed.

    Lately I’ve been very depressed. Between my own medical issues with whatever is going on with my throat, my back and dealing with the stress of my sick father, I’ve really been in a dark place to say the least.

    I think dealing with my dad has made me reminisce far more than usual. As a child and adolescent, I was a completely different person than I am today.. did some REALLY stupid things, have so many regrets, etc. Looking back, it really is hard to believe that was me, and I’ve always tried to look at it as I was a different person, which, I suppose is true in many ways.

    Your posting today really spoke to me and gave me a more positive way of thinking of things. In the long run, I’m hoping it helps. Unfortunately, I tend to be an over-thinker, and over-dweller so it usually takes me some time to deal with things.

    I suppose, like everyone, I have good days and bad. Unfortunately, mostly bad ones lately. But todays post helped to brighten my outlook.

    Perhaps that light at the end of the tunnel is not a freight-train bearing down on me. :-)

  • Su

    Congratualtions Melanie, sending you light and warm blessings. Wishing you a healthy and healing journey through your pregnancy. :-) xxx

  • Su

    I just wrote a long reply about making choices and totally vanished! So weird..lets try again…
    —-

    So good coming back to blog after a few missed busy days. It feels like a treat 8)

    About making choices we might regret, I happened to be reading a book connected with this and doing a workshop at the weekend (these things just keep happening!). Learning how to do Future Life Progression so that in any area of our lives we get to see the outcome of the choices we make today – it’s done under light hypnosis. Future Life meaning 5 to 10 years from now or for curious people, other life times in the future! It’s so facinating, have tried it on friends with wonderful detailed feedback. It really helps bring forward the right choices and saves years of plodding on and wasting time – cut to the chase! You can also speak to your future self to give the present day you, advice and guidance. Its so much fun! My friend even saw the house he would buy in two years and street name, we checked it on google map and voila – exactly what he saw…! So there are ways put fears at rest by going forward (or backward) in time to find out what needs, healing, doing or releasing. xxx

  • Stanley

    Hello Elisa,

    Good post topic there. I can understand Erik feeling that dealing with ones past is simple from the spirit side of the veil. And that makes sense from that side. But here, we don’t have universal knowledge and we also have to deal with our own ego and all that goes with that.

    I can only comment about my own past. For me, I feel haunted by my past. Some days, even tortured. I do understand no one can erase their past. What happened, happened. You can’t go backwards and undo it. My goal is to reach that place where my past no longer causes pain and discomfort. Overall, another good topic Elisa. :)

    And Melanie, you can count on me for support and energy to help you during the pregnancy and after. And don’t quote me, but when I think about you and Kara, I just get this feeling that the new baby IS Kara. That it’s her coming back.

    Like I said though, don’t quote me. I have been wrong before, but that’s just the feeling I am getting right now. I am sure Erik or your guides directly can tell you for sure. In any event, I will send all the good energies I can. I wish you nothing but the best Melanie. **hug**

    -Stanley

  • Tracy Lamont

    Hope you all like this poem I wrote about Adam.
    I wrote it before Charlie was born and I’ve toyed with changing the line about the stranger with the twinkling eyes and making it about Charlie…

    Remember Me

    It happened so fast, no time to prepare,
    No time to say how much I care,
    No time to give you all a hug,
    My sister’s hair, a playful tug.
    My instincts told me not to go,
    Along that dark and foggy road,
    But, with my friend, I took that ride,
    We died together, side by side,
    Snatched, swiftly from my family,
    No last goodbyes,
    Remember Me..
    At first, I couldn’t understand,
    But Grandad came, he took my hand,
    He smiled at me and held me tight,
    He wrapped me in a golden light.
    I travelled to a far-off place,
    A perfect world in time and space,
    The Angels came down from above,
    Surrounding me with purest love,
    I thought my heart would burst with glee!
    I love you all,
    Remember Me..
    They took me through a shimmering door,
    I met those who had gone before,
    They welcomed me with hugs and cheer,
    So pleased to see me safely here.
    I felt the love they bathed me in,
    A warm cocoon, so safe, serene.
    I can’t describe the beauty here,
    A sacred place, beyond compare,
    I’m happy, now, alive and free,
    My spirit soars,
    Remember Me..
    I’m there beside you, when you cry,
    I hear you whisper, “Why, Oh why?”
    I need so much to let you know,
    That it was just my time to go.
    I had to get a message through,
    To tell you I was home with you,
    I whispered in my father’s ear,
    I told him I was safely here
    And not to worry about me,
    I’m with you all,
    Remember Me..
    I come to you in dreams at night,
    I comfort you and hold you tight,
    I’m always here, I haven’t gone,
    I’m still your Adam, my life goes on.
    I brush your cheek, wipe away a tear,
    I see you smile, you know I’m here,
    I make my presence heard and felt,
    I’m moving things around the house,
    Please, don’t be sad, I’ll help you see,
    My love lives on,
    Remember Me..
    I’m with you till the end of days,
    I’ll show you in a thousand ways,
    White feathers drifting to the floor,
    A stunning rainbow at the door.
    A stranger stops to say hello,
    He smiles at you and you will know,
    Those twinkling eyes are really mine,
    My beating heart, My love Divine,
    Forever with my family,
    I love you Always,
    Remember Me…

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Aw, so beautiful, Tracy. It makes me weep tears of joy for Adam, but tears of sorrow for you.

  • nikki

    Mistakes…I can’t imagine that I will ever stop making them. Isnt that how we learn and grow?

    But are they mistakes or unexpected outcomes? I think the bigger question is what was the intent in regards to the choice. Sometimes even the best intentions result in unexpected outcomes and we perceive that as a mistake. I am bad at accepting these outcomes. Mostly because I am a control freak. Looking back…some of my best moments have been those in which the outcome was unexpected.

    Melanie, how awesome. Trust in your gut feeling. I too had a thought that kara was involved :)

  • LaurenF

    Great info. from Erik Elisa! Especially the first half of this session! As for skeptics, I deal w/ them on a daily basis. It’s so hard to comfort family or friends that need advice sometimes, when they really don’t want to hear “this will all work out, you planned this before coming here to earth, stay strong and know that your angels are around to help you”. lol. I’m sure they’re thinking, “o.k., she needs more help than me. lol. I feel just like Erik said, these people are NOT pushing me AWAY from my beliefs, only pushing me to know more and more about my spirituality!

    Melanie,
    Congratulations on your new little miracle! I am no psychic, but I feel whole heartedly that your baby Kara knew all about this new baby! She’ll probably be there with you during your whole pregnancy to cheer you and the baby on! You are in my prayers and I wish you the best, healthiest pregnancy and baby! You’ll get through this! I’m sure when you go to your first ultrasound and see that little baby for the first time, you’ll fall in love instantly, while still having the same love for Kara, that will never go away. It’s not a replacement, just a new spirit coming into your life for a special purpose! Let us know about your progress and feel free to email me if you need to talk!
    By the way, Kim O’Neill has a book out that I’d love to read. I hear it’s great. It’s called “How to Bond with your Baby Before Birth”. It’s helps you discover why your new baby chose you as it’s mother, the life lessons that it’s chosen, how to communicate with the baby, etc. Take care and sending love and light to you, Kara, and your new baby and family!

  • Patrick

    Melanie – congratulations!! Congratulations!! I’ve been pregnant twice, vicariously. (I’m male)

    “..that this baby WILL BE a blessing..”??? Already is….already is. ALL babies are blessings.

    “Totally NOT planned” – Really? What convinces you? ROTFLMBO…..this was not an accident, it never is.

    I take it Kara is your daughter, in Heaven. You suspect she had something do with it. OK…but you said “totally NOT planned”…..LOL x 2.

    This IS Kara, sweetheart.

    You’ll be fine!

  • Jane

    Thanks Elisa, that is a good mindset to have and i do intend to teach that to my child.

    Stanley I am guessing that Erik and the Spirit world would have more to say about the deep wounds of PTSD. While there may be some overlap between that and being haunted by past mistakes/bad decisions I don’t think the two can be equated.

    Love and light to all.

  • Tony

    The part in the post about being able to send yourself healing in the past was particularly interesting to me as well, and something I would certainly like to learn more about.

    I have not heard of Kwan Yin or Pranic healing. Yvonne, are you by any chance involved in Yoga as well?

  • elizabeth Schrader

    I had the pleasure of a channeling session from Jason. Erik came thru beautifully with interesting information for me on purpose versus desire. He also spoke about skepticism – so this blog post seems most appropriate:) Elisa you and your son have made an incredible difference in peoples lives – thank you!!!

    And Jason is a gifted channeler – if he’ll just do as my Mother said and have more faith in himself:)

    Melanie I’m sending you and your baby light and love!

  • Amy N.

    Blessings Melanie, I too feel that it is Kara coming back. It reminds me of the Celebrity Ghost Story segment I saw just this past weekend when that blonde guy from Dukes of Hazzard had his dead brother’s childhood memories because he IS his brother, returned again.
    I have gone back in my mind to incidents in my childhood where I am not proud of my selfish behavior and then visualize a more favorable outcome where I am more generous and giving. I can honestly say that the more open and generous side of me is where I come from most naturally, these days. You really can change your bad reactions and behavior if you acknowledge your mistakes, realize how it hurts people, forgive yourself and correct it.

  • iola

    Melanie,
    when i read the post this morning, giant tears suddenly ran down my face. My only thought was..
    “how wonderful!” what a gift the baby will be for you. Kara will be right beside you, and it will be wonderful. I am thrilled for you, and feel it will all be fine..truly.
    Love the part about forgiving yourself..giving yourself love. Its the last thing I would think to do, but the most sorely needed. I need to learn to forgive myself…I am tryng best i can, and the rest has togo by. Love the way he put it..
    be grateful for the chance to fuck up, then move on. Since I am still doing it daily, this really is freeing. Thanks, cowboy.
    Tracy,
    your poem is so personally touching for me. it makes me cry in shared feelings. Thank you for posting it…you put it all so wonderfully.
    Love and light to you all, my dears!

  • Susan

    Congratulations Melanie on your pregnancy….exciting for you and I’m sure this new baby is a gift from Heaven :-)

    I try to look at all my past mistakes and have a good laugh!!!!…It’s amazing how different you feel and look at stuff as you mature……..:-)
    Love and Light Susanxoxox

  • Steve

    Jane – I’ve had the same thing happen. Randomly, some embarrassing memory from my past will pop into my brain and I’ll actually blush remembering it, thinking, “what was I THINKING when I DID THAT?”

    It’s good that we can move forward and accept the past and work on the NOW. This was a great reading today.

  • Melanie

    Thank you everyone so much for all the support and kind words. I had my ultrasound today, and only being 5-6 weeks along, they could not see the heartbeat just yet. I have to go back in a couple of weeks. Please keep those prayers coming. I too when I first found out, wondered if it was Kara. I think if I fond out down the road that this is a girl… it may make me cry like a baby! Thank you again so much. Love you all tons. Again, if anyone is able to hear from Kara or Eric about this… please let me know! Feel free to email me at anytime!!
    melanie.lunan@shaw.ca
    Much love to everyone.
    xox
    Thanks again Elisa!! xoxox

  • Carol (Chris’ Mom)

    Melanie,
    As soon as I read about your situation I shot up a prayer for you. I, also had the feeling that this IS Kara. We’ll all wait and see if this is a boy or a girl! Confirmation for our channeling skills.

    Also, my two (yes, TWO) daughters were my “Whoops” babies. I can assure you that the love you will share with your “totally unplanned” child will blow you away. You’ll be just as proud of he/she and love this baby as much as you did Kara…I promise. My daughters, now 27 and 29 have been my biggest source of strength since losing my son and their brother, Chris.

    This is a blessing! Pregnancies are never a mistake. We’re all here, rooting for you.

  • Kateb

    Great post topic Elisa and Erik you both have brought much understanding , acceptance and learning to my world.love you both……I used to beat myself up about my past,some bad decisions made and lots of regrets.I now look back and try to realise the whole experience was a learning tool.I can honestly say I am a better person these days.To Melanie warm and loving blessings to you and your family and good health to you and your baby throughout your pregnancy.Tracey,your poem is so beautiful it made me cry like a baby.I felt every word.
    love to all Kateb.

  • Skoshi

    Will be sending you and the baby Reiki, Melanie.

    Very valuable information, Erik. I just went twice through Pema Chodron’s CD set “Don’t Bite the Hook: Finding Freedom from Anger, Resentment, and Other Destructive Emotions”. I got it out of the library and it is so good I’ve ordered it from amazon. In the seminar, she says her listeners have the advantage of “the teachings” (precepts they’re learning in the convent) but they still goof up; but they forgive themselves, so when someone who doesn’t have the advantage of the teachings offends them, should they not extend forgiveness to them? So there’s two sides to Erik’s advice: forgive yourself for the times you’ve goofed, AND forgive those who goof against you! LOL.

    She also says it’s human nature to screw up, so why curse yourself or people for screwing up? It makes as much sense as being angry at fire for being hot. And like fire, there are pros and cons to screwing up, if we use the screw up for spiritual growth. And it’s a huge advantage when someone does something to harm us, because we have a terrific opportunity to “burn off” karma by responding with love.

  • Skoshi

    How’s this for serendipity? Today’s “Tricycle” enewsletter is on the same topic as your blog.

    MAKE THE FIRST MOVE: Usually we are in a stalemate with our world: “Is he going to say he is sorry to me first, or am I going to apologize to him first?” But in becoming a bodhisattva we break that barrier: we do not wait for the
    other person to make the first move; we have decided to do it ourselves.
    -Chogyam Trungpa Rinpoche

    So Chogyam Trungpa Rinpoche is in fine company with Erik! How many of us have as one of our teenaged mistakes that someone did something mean, and we didn’t forgive them, and we now regret it and think BOTH of us were stupid?

  • nikki

    Skoshi,
    Very interesting. I cannot say I am all that great of a person. I make lots of mistakes and I was once told, I am a very happy person, as long as I get my way. LOL so true. I continue to work on not being so self centered and controlling. It’s gonna take a while :)

    However, after losing my son, I decided that a lot of the pettiness and hard feelings I was carrying around (unrelated to him) were not worth it anymore. Maybe I wanted to be free of negative feelings, maybe he was sending me a message to rid myself of those. Regardless, I sent out several emails to people…apologizing, telling them I love them despite our differences etc. It was such a healing experience. I asked that they NOT respond back. I didnt want to make seem like I was asking for an apology in return. So to be honest, I have no idea if the emails were even read or not. But it certainly made me feel better :)

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    Please do read my blog to update yourself on this wondorous book, if you like.

    http://latikatripathi.blogspot.com/2011/06/book-channeled-by-babaji.html

    Love and Light,
    Purvi.
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    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Purvi, you’re writings are inspirational. Would you like to share a sample for the CE family? That might help sales and therefore help humanity.

  • Lorna

    Forgive yourself for the times you’ve goofed, AND forgive those who goof against you! Class! Made me laugh, thanks.

    Melenie, its lovely that you are going to have a baby and the baby will be so lucky to have you as a mother. I don’t know if Kara as a hand in this but if she did that says you are that special that even when you didn’t think about becoming a mother again she decided that the world would not be the same if you didn’t. She knows what a great job you will do xo

    Love to the ce family

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      I miss hearing from you Lorna! How are you?

  • http://www.DhruvPublishing.com Purvi Beri

    Of course! Thankyou! Please email me you email address on purviberi@gmail.com and I will send them.

    Love and Light,
    Purvi.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      My email is emedhus@gmail.com. So, it’s okay for me to post your writing in an entry? Just making sure, Sweetie.

  • Lorna

    Hello Elisa

    Thank you for asking I am doing ok but keeping my head down.

    I have just started seeing the therapist Eric advised me to see. [He said, "Tell her to go to therapy just about receiving love. She'll learn her self-worth by loving somebody else. Commonly, that's not how it works. But if she can find a FUN therapist Erik tells Jamie about a therapist that is also a client of Jamie's that lives in the U.K. He wants you to go to her]

    She is very good and she tells me she was best friends with Jamie in another life. I give up on everything I start but I know that she will not let me give her the push,,,I know I don’t need to ask you to thank Eric just told him myself.

    I never miss a posting, it brings me so much comfort. I need to know how everyone is doing and feel close when I read what is written.

    Love all xxxxxxxxxxx

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      I remember that! That’s so cool, Lorna. You know that Erik had many past life associations with Jamie, so I bet that means you and Erik had past life relationships too! I know he cares deeply for you.

  • Jane Stewart Adams

    What a beautiful poem, Tracy! It says everything I would like to be able to tell people as a Medium. Would you mind if I copy and keep it, and maybe in the future pass it on to someone in grief who needs reassurance that death is not the end?

    Blessings

    XJane

  • Christi

    First, Congrats to you Melanie!!! You may not have been expecting a baby-but it WAS planned, it is meant to be. Kara will be there with you every step, remember that when your new baby looks up at the ceiling and smiles at “nothing”!! I’m sending you both love and light.
    Second-Tracy, your poem it absolutely beautiful and so comforting. Thank you for sharing it with us-I’ve got tears and a smile.
    Third-Elisa, Erik’s in sight into being able to look at your past as if it was a different self and send love and compassion really stuck a chord in me. If Tom(my fiance’) had been able to do this I truly believe that he would still be here today….he got so overwhelmed by past mistakes and was unable to forgive himself or to even feel that he had a soul anymore that he took his life. Please thank Erik for me…I think this information may just be the information that keeps me from making the same choice.
    Hugs to you all!!

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Consider it done, Christi!

  • http://www.DhruvPublishing.com Purvi Beri

    Absolutely…do mention the source, I will send you and email.

    Love and Light,
    Purvi.

  • Marga

    Just wanted to say hello and tell that this is my favourite transcript!

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Hello back!

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