Channeling Erik

April26th

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Demonic Possessions

Posted in: 2012, After Death Communication, Afterlife, Channeling, Communication from the dead, Consciousness, Contact with the dead, Evil Spirits, God, Grief, Grieving, Guardian Angel, Heaven, Life After Death, Mental illness, Pranks from spirits, Proof in the spirit world, Proof of the Afterlife, Psychic medium, Spirit Guides, Suicide

Channeling Transcript

Jeannie: How are you?

Me: Great, no complaints, except it’s been kind of cold over here!

Jeannie: I heard that; I can’t believe it got so cold down there.

Me: Yeah, we have a winter storm warning here, so the kids are psyched because they’ll probably get out early today and get off all day tomorrow.

Jeannie: I used to love when that happened.

Me: Me too! I love having my kids home with me, unless they annoy me, which, with teenagers, isn’t uncommon.

Jeannie: Yeah, and I think sometimes when people choose not have kids, they’re missing out.

Me: I guess they’re not for everybody, but I just love ‘em.  They’re my favorite thing in the world!

(Pause)

Jeannie: Thanks for letting me have some time to get into that space.

Me: Oh, take all the time you need. I’ll be here!

Jeannie says her pre-channeling prayer.

(Long pause)

Erik: I’m here, Mom! I just love these conversations with you. It’s just great! We had a time when I was there with you, conversations—we didn’t talk as much as you wanted to, but I do remember you always seemed to soothe me, and I want to thank you for that. I heard what you said. It wasn’t like you often thought—that it went in one ear and out the other. That wasn’t it.  I held it in my mind and pondered on it a lot. I want you to know that you are the greatest mom that anybody could have.

Me: Aw, Sweetie.

Erik: And I know I put you through lots of grief, especially when I chose to leave. That’s the one biggest things I’m sorry for—not necessary the choice, because here I’ve found so much happiness, but for the grief I’ve caused all of you.

Me: That’s okay, Baby. I mean, we’re not over it and probably never will be, but everyone in the family, including me, of course, is so happy that you’re happy and no longer miserable. I’m just so proud of what you’ve done with the blog, how many people you’re reaching. Isn’t that great?

Erik: Mom, it’s so great, but it’s you that’s doing it! I knew and I hoped that something wonderful would come out of all of this. And if I can prevent, uh, or help to guide any of the people—you don’t know what it feels like. Well, I guess you do, cuz you heal so many people yourself.

Me: Well, I know it must feel really good for you. Now, I have some questions to ask first. Oh, and I heard you’re learning to tickle people!  I felt that when I was visiting Robert in the hospital. Keep up the progress. That’s awesome! Everybody loves your sense of humor, too!

Erik: Thanks!

Me: What is your status in Heaven, Erik? Are you an angelic messenger of some sort? I mean, you seem to interact with humans so easily, and the impact you have on everyone is causing this huge ripple effect that’s bound to have impact on even more people. Does what you’re doing now have anything to do with the coming shift? Some of the blog members feel like you’re of a much higher vibration or maybe just a different vibration.

Erik: Well, I am a guide-in-training, and nothing I’ve ever done feels like this. Mom, you’re filled with such light, and the more I learn, the wiser I become and the more light that’s inside me. I get to help with this shift and change of the earth. What’s happening is God is not only calling on the people of the earth to bring as much light and consciousness as they can and get their work out, He’s calling on all of us here too. We’re all working to shift the consciousness so the earth doesn’t have to go through such a dramatic and traumatic change. I never thought that I’d be doing something this important!

Me: So exciting. I couldn’t be more proud.

(Pause)

Me: Okay, let’s see. Next question. Is there any such thing as a demonic possession?

Erik: Yeah, there is. There is.

Me: Okay, can you expand on that a bit?

Erik: From what I understand—and I have my angel standing next to me to step in if I say something that’s not right.

I laugh.

Erik: But it’s my understanding that there’s light and there’s dark, and if someone concentrates or focuses on the dark too much, it can come in and take over. It causes a lot of mental illness. It can cause a lot of pain. I thought about it, you know, and I wondered about it for myself.

Me: Wow, so you thought you were possessed at one point?

Erik: Well, I didn’t really think I was possessed, but I wondered, because I was so fucking conflicted—all those emotions running around.

Me: Yeah. Well, what’s the purpose? If everything is God and God is All There Is, how could demons, demonic possessions or dark forces exist?

Erik: It—I’m also told that there’s polarity. There’s light, there’s dark—on this planet. It’s a place of learning. There are other places that have a lot more light. I’m talking about planets and shit. So earth is a place of polarity—light, dark.

Me: It’s the advanced learning playground, I guess, huh? The accelerated class.

Erik: That’s the way I see it.

Me: So the Source, God, the Light, whatever you want to call it, also creates this darkness in order to help us see the light. In other words, it’s hard to see the candle when you’re holding it on the surface of the sun.

Erik: Exactly. The light will always win, though.

(Thank God!)

 

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  • https://sites.google.com/site/kookyspookyookyjournal/ Jason

    So I thought I’d chime in as before when such topics come up. Robert, Erik, and I have all talked about such things before and we all would like everyone to know that the term demonic is rather limiting and perhaps not the best choice when talking about the concepts of possession, obsessions, and influences. It might be better to think about what the term means when such a question is presented. To most of this audience; it is going to have Western Abraham Religious conitations and freak people out. People might be better served to think of categories of spiritual entities. Of which by the way we are a Spiritual entity as well. Off the top of my head, I’d say a better way to think of demonic is the label of Evil or harmful or malicious selfish intent. And Possession as Spiritual rape, and Obsession as deep influence, and influence as well… influence. Now as far as bad entities go. There are many types of beings that have enough spiritual prowess to navigate between dimensions to influence us. Both incarnate and dis-incarnate. Everything from Alien life, to primitive animalistic life, to humans. And that’s just the incarnate. All that also is true on the dis-incarnate side, as well as Entities that never have been incarnate. And, entities that are not entities like we think but are more energetic group consciousness. Motive and message is always the tell of any entity and what we take from it, how we react is key. Just my initial thoughts.

  • joann

    i am working from a phone for my internet access so it is slow going. i know computers but not cell phones. i love this information erik is giving us and i believe that still we are thinking of god as a living being just like the souls we are but i dont think this is the truth. i think that everything that god tells us is true literally not figuretively and he says he is the beginning and the end and also he says about himself that i am that i am and if we listen to that then we can understand that god is just what it is. no human emotion attached to him so when we ask stuff like why does god do this or do that or allow this or that then we seem like babies asking why does the sun shine or the wind blow or why is rain wet,,,,,these things just are what they are and therefore if we want to be more than babies asking questions then the first thing we need to do is realize that it is what it is because we make it this way. we are the only influense there is on ourplane us in flesh andus in heavenly form. etc,,,

  • joann

    erik keeps telling us that we need to understand all this stuff from a different view point a nonhuman view and paul in the bible says the same thing to us. we need to think in terms we never havebbefore and see that we cause the light and the dark with our own thoughts and emotions and also our deeds because deeds are the 3d manifestations of the thoughts and emotions we have. so god doesnnt do anything we do that is what free will allows us to experience so when we see all thebad stuff we dont like it is just the negative side tto all the good we do. when he bad gets too poweful and starts to win then the light will increase to win the balance back and if the human flesh does not fulfil the need then otherworldly beings help us in our struggle well cant say nore right now but i hope we can all talk about this awesome knowledge erik has given to us,,,love ya allame

  • Allen

    Interesting post. Topics like this is where the semantics get confusing to me (and it doesn’t take much!).

    I’ve read discussions about how there really is no devil, no hell (except what we create within us or for ourselves), and all is or should be good with love. Then the things we determine to be evil or bad are a reflection of the absence of good / love. I can get all that.

    However, the discussion of actual demonic possessions or evil beings or dark forces out there seems to contradict (in my mind) the approach that all things are created by God, all things created by God are inherently good and perfect, and that we’re all here to learn lessons to better ourselves by experiencing the polarity and the absence of love and goodness through some folks role-playing the villian in relationships or through not being as spiritually advanced as others and abusing their privilege of free will. Even the last part of my run-on sentence makes sense to me.

    But, where do these demons and dark forces fit into the picture? Can’t imagine something like that being created and out there to harass everyone, especially outside of the earthy plane since we have enough f-ed up people here to cause lots of problems. What is with the added spiritual element of demons and dark forces and in that regard?

    Just some random thoughts and questions as I try to wrap my head around it.

  • Skoshi

    Serendipity is at work again. As Elisa knows, my guides recommended 4 books during the session with Hethyrre a week ago. One, by Eugene Maurey, is “Exorcism/How to Clear At a Distance a Spirit Possessed Person” (Alcoholic, drug user, criminal, violent, depressive, allergic, chronically ill, etc.)

    He quotes researchers and MDs a lot in the book. He says when people “die” and don’t transition, the spirits of some who stay earth-bound enter into people and animals; that this happens when people believe there is nothing after death, so they don’t know where to go or don’t realize they’re dead since they’re conscious; or if they believe in Hell so they’re afraid if they leave, that’s where they’ll go. He says it’s safer and just as effective to do exorcism long-distance. He says to do so is to perform a loving service to the person who is “possessed” and to the spirit who is earth bound. He says it is not unusual for a person who has a spirit to have more than one.

    From what I’ve read so far, the process is: he invites the spirit who is in possession of “X” to sit down and talk with him, and he asks the spirit person’s guide to attend, because he says everyone has 2 or more guides/angels, including earth-bound spirits. The earth-bound spirits’ guides are ready and willing to help the spirits transition. He then tells the spirit person what it is like in the next dimension, the advantages of the spirit leaving to go there, the harm the spirit is doing to the person who is possessed, and introduces them to their guide, who is ready to assist them; he then tells them to leave.

    He says sometimes the person gets repossessed, so it’s important to follow up in 4 weeks, but generally, there is immediate improvement. Often the person who is possessed will develop cancer, a non-malignant tumor, diabetes, alcoholism or whatever it was the spirit died of.

    He says his experience is that one in three houses has one or more spirits. They might just be hanging out because they were fond of the place or there’s someone there they love. Often the spirit will possess a family member/loved one, because that’s who they’re attracted to and they think they’re helpful to the person they’re possessing, but, of course, they aren’t. If a family member asks for the clearing of a loved one they’re concerned about, he often doesn’t even tell the person he cleared that he had cleared them, because his dealing is with the spirit being, not the person who is possessed, so he doesn’t need to obtain their permission.

    The research he quotes is impressive.

  • iola

    Jason and Joanne have nailed it I think. Its deeper than that, but to me, the things I question and ask about are really baby questions. I am so glad they have the patience I need to take the baby steps and progress. You guys keep me sane, and at least aware of the right direction. Love you all! Thanks, Erik!!!

  • Skoshi

    Maurey says there isn’t any such thing as “demon” in the sense of the western misunderstanding of the word; that what Jesus said and what the Bible refers to is the spirits of people who have become disincarnate after “death” and have stayed on the earth. He says we do a loving service to aid them in understanding where they need to go, but some take more persuasion than others.

    Did anyone else see this article about children being able to improve academically because of meditating?

    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jeanne-ball/meditation-students_b_852352.html

  • http://catloverssite.blogspot.com/ Rebecca

    Skoshi, speaking of serendipity…one of my sons (Ian)in the past few months seem like two completely different people. He was reading a lot of “spiritual” material, this blog included, meditating, and having long wonderful conversations with me. Then he started spending a LOT of time playing horrible violent computer games since he got so few hours at work he became depressed and would spend sometimes 10 hours wrapped up in these games of darkness. For the past couple of months he has been having episodes of extreme anger, and getting more violent thoughts. He has been fighting with me, calling me horrible names and even shoved me. He never did this before. I can’t live with him. I’ve been saying “he’s like a person possessed”, and then this post comes along. Makes me wonder. Did all this focusing on hate and violence cause him to inadvertently invite some dark entity in? I found that book at Amazon, it’s on my wishlist since I can’t afford it, but are there any links that you could recommend? At this point I am scared of him, and he used to be such a sweetheart, still is sometimes but he can change in a heartbeat.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Rebecca, how old is he? Can you ground him from the video games? Better yet, pawn the games and use the money to buy that book. It might help you both!

  • guitarlinda

    I’m with Allen on this one………I believe darkness is just absence of light and lack of wisdom. However there can be evil thoughts or acts of ones own creation. just my opinion

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      As Erik said, there is no bad, just a wide spectrum of good. Bad is just on the other end.

  • Alexis

    Hey Rebecca,

    I’m reading between the lines here and am guessing that you have already tried to talk with Ian to address his negative attitude and behavior and have been blown off—hence the name calling and shoving—which is totally unacceptable! As a mom, I think that there are many games out there that really do mess with kid’s heads, their perception of reality, and their personalities. (The army uses first-person-shooter like the one I’d imagine your son is playing to desensitize soldiers to killing as combat training prep).

    Could you possibly talk to one of Ian’s friends, or an intermediary individual, which would allow you to express your concerns regarding Ian’s welfare–his negative attitude and behavior–to someone he might listen to? This intervention and communication from a peer or third party would certainly be perceived differently than having his mom “on his case” and might open the lines of communication between the two of you.

    Can you get him out of the house and engaged in any kind of physical activity so that he can blow off some pent up steam and frustration to clear his head? When my son, Remington, just goes on a gaming binge and gets no exercise/physical activity, he can be quite a grumpy, short-tempered little pain in the arse, to say the least! Getting him off his butt and working up a sweat really works wonders.

    Elisa has asked his age, which is a very important question. I would be hesitant to take his game away as he is already behaving so aggressively toward you, that would probably really just push his buttons at this point. Regardless of his age and life challenges, he needs to know that his nasty attitude and behavior toward you, or anyone else, will not be tolerated—NO excuses!

    Good luck! XOX

  • Skoshi

    Rebecca, I’m SO sorry to hear this. Maurey’s book says it is very rare for someone under the age of 8 to become possessed. He thinks they have some kind of protection till then. Your son could be possessed, or he could have some kind of medical problem, or maybe he’s incredibly stressed because of bullying. It can be any number of things. If I were you, I’d make an appointment today to speak with his school counselor. If he hasn’t got one, I’d call his teacher and ask for a conference immediately. Your county public health office may may have resources. You know, children are going through puberty younger and younger now. At the age of 9, my son needed deoderant and acted like a surley teenager. That takes quite a toll on some kids.

    Also, today I’d go to the public library and ask them to immediately get you Maurey’s book through their inter library loan program.

    Others please join me in doing Reiki for Rebecca AND her son AND for any spirits who might be possessing him. Ask that if he has any spirits, their guides would come and take them away and transmute them, clearing him, and setting up protection around him so this doesn’t happen again.

    Maurey says some people have immediate improvement upon being cleared, and others are improved but act like for days like they’re in a fog…like when a person comes out of anesthesia, and other people take a full month, showing gradual improvement.

    Maurey wrote his book in ’88 before there was the web with all its resources. He’s deceased now. This is what I get when I google him:

    http://www.google.com/search?client=gmail&rls=gm&q=Eugene%20Maurey

    I think you have to be very careful of charlatans. Jason/Robert…do you get anything about Rebecca’s son?

  • Skoshi

    I don’t know how anyone else feels about the subject of spirit possession, but it’s an area I have never wanted to get into. I think a person really needs to know what they’re doing when they deal with spirits. Apparently my guides have other plans for me or I made an agreement before incarnating to get into this stuff, because they recommended Maurey’s book. SIGH. They told me a lot of people in government are possessed, and I should work by clearing local government, then state government, then Federal. Can you imagine? Seems like quite an undertaking! I ask for all your prayers. No joke. Jason/Robert, any advice?

    I’m about half way through Maurey’s book…to the point where he’s teaching how he uses a pendulum to gain information about the spirit or spirits before he speaks with them and their guides.

    Serendipity again! Because of reading his book, I’ve been thinking a lot about the first time I used a pendulum. It was when a friend of mine was pregnant…40 years ago! In the ob/gyn’s office she met a woman who told her you could determine the sex of the baby with a pendulum. This was before ultra sound and many prenatal tests. And COINCIDENTALLY (NOT!) I just saw Kate Hudson on the Today show saying she used a pendulum to determine that her baby is a girl. She described a method I’ve heard of before where you hold a pendulum over your tummy and if it swings in a circle, it’s a girl and if it goes back and forth, it’s a boy. WELL, the woman in the OB/GYN’s office showed my friend to hold the pendulum over the wrist of a woman…any woman *(childless or whatever)…and the pendulum would swing across the wrist (like where a bracelet would sit) for a girl, and it would go the direction of the hand up the arm for a boy, and it would show each child, born or to be born, in birth order. At that point, my friend had a girl, then a boy, then a miscarriage, and she was pregnant. The pendulum went girl, boy, then it went CRAZY, then it went boy, then girl, then boy. My friend was totally distraught, thinking she had miscarried a boy and was pregnant with a girl. She loved children, and they wanted a big family, and she was still grieving the miscarriage. It really put a “face” on the baby. As it turned out, she ended up having a boy, then a girl, then another boy. So when it went crazy, it was showing the miscarriage, but not the sex of the baby. It showed I’d have one boy. That upset me because we wanted 3 children. I ended up having one son.

  • Skoshi

    Rebecca – in Maurey’s book, he often talks about his student, John Van Drie. I googled Van Drie and found this:

    http://reid_j.tripod.com/pendulum_class.htm

  • Stanley

    Hello,

    I have had no doubt that there are bad/evil in this world. My thoughts are that the so called evil spirits are not from this world, but from a different demension that come through a doorway of sorts. My grandma’s house was always very active. Turned out that her house was a passthrough a door way. She told me one time about my cousin that was sitting in chair at the dining room table that began jumping up and down with her in the chair. And about when my dad was a child said that a man would walk into his room wearing a suit and a top hat, walk around his bed and into the bedroom closet and disapear. I have to admit, that would scare me. But the biggest I recall happened to my god father when he was a kid. My dad invited him over to sleep over. Around midnight my god father heard a voice tell him “GET OUT”. He left right then and there and never step foot in my grandparents house again.

    And I myself saw a type of ghost when I was around 12. I was spending the night and had turned down the hall to use the bathroom. It was the middle of the night, and all the doors were closed and lights off all the way down the hall. All the sudden this white/green mist appeared at the end of the hallway. It just stood there glowing. I just stood looking at it. Then it began to move toward me and I ran. It was my first time to actually see a ghost.

    When it comes to evil spirits, I don’t have a doubt that they exsist. I have had several unwanted visitors over the years. I shared about the one almost a year ago that would come between 1am and 5am. She showed herself to me one time during a dream. Anyway, she would make me feel that if I closed my eyes, something undesireable would happen. Just that typical feeling of dreed. If she came while I was alseep, I would have the same dream of being in bed unable to move or speak. Pretty scary experience.

    What I can say is that if you ask for love and light protection, it does help and work. I often meditate and create a sort of shield around my room from those who are not of the light. Leaving the bad stuck at my room door looking in. So I can say that prayers and such does work. I wish everyone the best. Take care. Another interesting topic Elisa. Keep em coming.

    -Stanley

  • http://catloverssite.blogspot.com/ Rebecca

    well thanks for the suggestion Elisa but he’s 18, I can’t ground him ’cause he doesn’t go anywhere and I don’t think it’s safe for me to touch computer or games that he bought. Those games were never allowed I despise anything hurtful or violent and tried so hard to keep it out of my house (no TV for one thing) but they buy them and download them and I have lost control and am battle weary. *sigh* I don’t get it, I could never even watch the news or even people calling names on the stupid sitcoms…I am befuddled by any behavior that hurts people or the Earth, yet 2 of my boys at least are SO drawn to violence. Anyway thanks for the post and your reply and love and blessings to you and the CE family.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Ah, 18. That’s a tough one. Have you sat down and spoken to him about how his behavior and his interests affect you?

  • Skoshi

    I asked Hethyrre for advice on this subject. She said, COINCIDENTALLY (!), this topic came up at a group she attends on Tuesday evenings. It certainly leads me to think it’s highly possible our guides have decided at this time, with the Shift underway, it is time to address all these spirits who are stuck here. If you watch Ghost Hunters and programs of that ilk, you may have noticed that often when they tape record a spirit, they’re saying, “help”. My heart goes out to them the same as to an incarnate spirit. It isn’t just the incarnate who will be impacted by the Shift. Anyway, this was the message Hethyrre said she’d received for me:

    “There is little that is truly what we would call ‘evil’ except that we make it so with our thinking. As we live our daily lives we come up against all manner of energies – some dark, some light. It’s the contrast we notice and label.

    When it comes to clearing the energies we experience as dark or negative, it means that we have agreed on some level to raise the vibration of a place, a person, a thing. Ideally, we recognize that everything is part of the Oneness. This means that what we are clearing has some place of resonance within us. Then we clear from a place of connection within – not a place of judgment. When we come to this work from a place of love and open-heartedness we are unlikely to be impacted in an unbalanced way.

    Personally, I never do the work myself. It IS easy to fall into fear around the energies. Long ago I was assigned a guide who does this – and, on rare occasions, I’ve needed to request further assistance through prayer.”

    Maurey says many of the spirits who get stuck and don’t transition did not have spiritual leanings when they were incarnate. They were alcoholics, drug abusers, criminals. So when they find themselves stuck here, they are drawn to people who drink or use drugs or are interested in violence. I’m not saying your son is possessed; I don’t know one way or the other, but having studied human development, I know there’s a lot of research about violent play and children then acting out against people or animals. It is as though practicing violence with toy “heroes” has given them mental permission and practice to act in an unsocial way. I would suggest, at the very least, setting time limits on his use of violent games and TV. If he acts out in a physical way, I really think it’s best to seek guidance from his teacher or school counselor. Accidents happen and boys often don’t realize their strength. You certainly wouldn’t want him to severely injure you…for your own sake and his and have him end up in juvenile detention. I’d recommend taking it up with his pediatrician, but I know if you have trouble paying for a book, you might not be able to pay for a doctor’s visit.

  • laura Vanden Bosch

    Hello,

    Dark is just the absence of light.

    peace and love and sunshine laura

  • Stanley

    Hello,

    Just had to post about games. I have heard so much about how games make kids violent. That’s just not true. I have been playing the game World of Warcraft for several years now. It’s a role playing game where you battle against demons, ghosts, machines and so on. But not once have I played it, or any other game and thought “gee, let me go get a sword and start hacking people to pieces”. I just don’t buy that reasoning. Just my two cents about games.

    But about your son Rebecca, could you ask if he is willing to go to family therapy? Or you could tell him that if he can’t treat people respectfully, he needs to find a new place to live. Sadly when one reaches that age of 18 becoming a adult, he or she is now responsible for their own actions. I know that doesn’t help. But one thing I have learned in my short time here, life is NEVER easy. I wish you and your son the best Rebecca.

    -Stanley

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      I agree, once they’re 18, unless they’re disabled with mental illness, etc., then the option is to give him a choice: behave in a way that honors the greatest good for the greatest number of people or get a place to stay, gainful employment, etc, although you need to give him time to do so–no longer than 2 to 3 months.

  • Skoshi

    Rebecca, If you are emotionally strong enough to ask your son to leave and are the least bit fearful that he will become violent, please do not approach him alone. If you decide to ask him to leave and he refuses and you can’t afford to talk to a lawyer, call the nearest law school and ask to talk to the legal aid class portion of the school. If they can’t help you (some, for instance, only do pro bono criminal law defense; some only do tenants’ rights, etc.), ask them where you can call for free advice.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Excellent advice, Skoshi!

  • http://catloverssite.blogspot.com/ Rebecca

    THANKS so much, Skoshi and Alexis, your help is appreciated. Ian was home-schooled and passed his GED at 17, so there are no teachers or school involved. Gosh, I try to get him out to do some gardening and yard work or just get out in nature, but that’s another battle. His sister and other brothers are informed so they are paying attention and offering suggestions, carefully. Awww Stanley, you play WOW? He does, but he’s been playing “Wolfenstein” or something like that and I swear that one has caused a change, he gets so angry. Maybe different people react differently too. A friend’s mom has offered to help him get a job where she works, and he wants to work, there are just no jobs available here except the part time that he has and very few hours there. They don’t hire 16 and 17 yr olds here, there’s nothing. You guys are GREAT thanks so much for “listening” and the suggestions and I’m gonna try to get that book from the library!

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      I say if he’s 17, not 18, give him the choice: either curtail his violent outbursts or the game system will be taken away for a while. At the same time, let him know that you’re there for him if he needs assistance finding a healthy outlet for his frustration–Krav Maga is really fun for teens. Mountain biking (I used to go with Erik), Kick boxing, etc. You don’t have to invest in lessons–just rent a DVD. Practice with him outside or encourage him to enlist a friend to join him.

  • Stanley

    Hello Rebecca,

    Perhaps he can take a job as a security guard till he is older, and also to build up a work history. In my experience, I was forced to drop out of high school (11th grade), so I needed to find work that didn’t require I GED and such, that was a security company in Santa Fe California, Initial Security. Anyway, they hired a lot of people out of high school about to graduate. Anyway, it’s a decent job and has openings all times of the day. Personally being a night person, I prefered the 4pm-midnight, or midnight-8am. Perhaps he can do the same if he doesn’t like day light for some reason. Security companies also don’t ask for a past job history which works out as your son hasn’t had a job yet. I don’t know, just a thought. :)

    -Stanley

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