Channeling Erik

August28th

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Ask Erik: Zelda’s Question

Posted in: After Death Communication, Afterlife, Bereaved, Between Lives, Channeling, Communication from the dead, Contact with the dead, Crossing over, Death, Grief, Grieving, Heaven, Kim O'Neill, Mental illness, Messages from the dead, Psychic medium, Spiritual enlightenment, Struggles, Suicide

I found this part of the session to be very interesting on many levels. For one, Erik provided information before I could even ask any questions!

Zelda’s Question

I’d be SO incredibly appreciative (i.e., it would blow my mind) if you would pass this on. My friend was a beautiful guy with a razor-sharp mind and sense of humour to match. I knew him for 20 years! His sudden and shocking suicide — after a highly traumatic first-ever breakdown in midlife (rare!) — blew his partner and friends out of the water. I’m not alone in saying I miss his wit and intelligence and warmth every day and thinking that he’s gone brings tears in a moment. Enough eulogies…

For your coordinates: My friend’s name was Gordon. He had just turned 49 and committed suicide maybe March 13, 2010. He lived and died in Montreal, Quebec (Canada). I’m 48 and I live on the west coast, in Vancouver, BC (Canada).

Re a question: Listen, I’d be shocked to hear anything from him. And he was a laser-bright guy; I don’t think he’d let me tell him what to say, even in death. (Come to think of it, I believe that shortly after his death his partner was in fact approached by a woman who said she’d been contacted by him, but I don’t think his partner believed a word of it.)

In life Gordon wouldn’t have trucked in this sort of stuff and likely would have made a clever and hilarious joke about it. But I’ve believed in reincarnation and such since I was five or six so it all came naturally to me, though nobody — not even my mom, who died when I was 10 — has ever “communicated” with me. Elisa, it’s ironic to say you’re ‘fortunate’ in that you were visited so soon by your son. It goes without saying that you would preferred to have had him in flesh and blood and life (I’m a mother, too).

Thanks again, take care, and though I’m a standoffish and private person, I have to send love,

Zelda

Channeling Transcript

Me: Now, next one comes from Zelda. She’s 48 and lives on the west coast of Canada.

Kim: Oh! Pretty area!

Me: I know! Uh, let’s see. She had a friend, Gordon, who just turned 49 and committed suicide this past March. He died in Montreal. Anyway, uh—

Kim: I’m already getting information from Erik, Elisa.

Me: Oh, okay! Fire away then!

Erik: Nobody really knew Gordon. They thought they did, but they didn’t. He was suicidal from the time he was a teenager. He was battling depression, but it was something he was able to hide really, really well. I know Zelda probably thinks this was some midlife crisis, but it really wasn’t that at all.

Me: Yeah, I think that’s what she said everyone thought.

Erik: Dude’s got a funny sense of humor, smart, charming–funny ass guy–sensitive, real enlightened. But holy crap was he ever private! Secretive guy to the point that even the people who thought they knew him inside and out really did not. So this was such a shock to everyone.

Me: Exactly! That’s what Zelda said!

Erik (in mock exasperation): Mommmmmm, I know!

Me: Well, ‘scuse me!

Erik: He didn’t share this with anyone, because he was a private person. Also, he didn’t share it cuz he knew they’d try to talk him out of it. There were times when he was planning a suicide, and he decided not to do it. Um, like a phone call would come in or somebody would pop in his mind or doorbell would ring, something would happen that took his attention away and the moment would pass.

Me: Okay.

Erik: So, it was bound to happen. And anyone who—uh—he didn’t share himself with anyone.

Me: Is he doing okay?

Erik: Hell, yeah. Couldn’t be happier. He’s very fulfilled and has a whole bunch of friends. It’s really weird, cuz when Gordon is here in Heaven, he’s very open and secure; he connects with others. When he goes to the earthly plane, he gets very blocked, very frightened, very restrained, emotionally, spiritually, very self-protective, suspicious of others, and it makes him very secretive. But to know him on the earthly plane, you wouldn’t have thought that about him.

Kim: Elisa, I’ve channeling for 23 years. Gordon is one of the most secretive people I’ve looked into, and I’ve channeled for C.I.A. operatives, so…

Me: Oh, my gosh!

Kim: And K.G.B. people, literally. And he is one of the most, if not THE most secretive person I’ve ever looked into.

Me: Wow! Interesting.

Kim: And he was able to put forth a completely different—wasn’t play acting or anything like that or trying to fool people—

Me: There were just two sides to the man.

Kim: Precisely.

Erik: That takes a shitload of energy. Damn.

Me: I can imagine.

  • Tiffany

    It’s funny how awareness affects a person. Since reading this blog ,I look at all people differently. I wonder what their journey must be like, what they are supposed to be learning, and why they chose the situations they did. Its all so fascinating. I used to see people through mini judgment and stereotype lenses if you will. Now, I really see them through the lens of love. The shift in awareness is so uplifting.

    Zelda, may God and Angels assist your healing and may you have a better understanding of your dear friend Gordon. Sounds like, for being such a private person he did let a few special ones in for a peek! You being one of them. May love and light be ever present with you through and beyond your grief.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Beautifully written, Tiffany!

  • Skoshi

    I know where Gordon’s coming from. I didn’t share personal concerns with others till I was in my 40s. As a child, I told a trusted Uncle I was afraid that my father was an alcoholic. He IMMEDIATELY told my father.

    I was married to an abusive man for 20 years and didn’t tell anyone. I knew they would criticize me and not offer any help. When I was with others, I wanted to put the abuse out of my mind, not have discussions about it with folks who couldn’t or wouldn’t help. It was only when things were so bad that I was afraid he’d kill our son that I left and had to tell people what was happening. Even then no one stepped up to help. My mother told me to go back to my husband. I wonder if Gordon had the same types of experiences? It really shuts one down.

  • Danielle Notaro

    Skoshi, people can be so ignorant. I have a friend who divorced her husband many decades ago. The guy was sexually abusing their kids. Her mother kept telling her to not divorce him being the good catholic that she was. What an ass. Even though her mother gave her a hard time all through out her life, my firend was her main support through her mother’s illness and “death”.

  • http://channelingerik Pat

    Tiffany….what a profound statement. I believe you hit the nail on the head concerning how we stop judging when we realize that people have different paths in life that will help shape them and those around them and we should not be the one to “judge” them.

    In Neal Donald Walsch’s book Conversations With God, he talks about how there really isn’t a right and wrong…only consequences. This is a very difficult concept for most people to grasp because they can’t fathom that there could ever be no right or wrong.

    But when you start looking at people from the perspective that they “chose” these experiences, you may begin to see the beauty in the plan….even those who do the most evil of deeds are perhaps learning a valuable lesson and even those who are “victims” may have had a pact with the perpetrator of those evil deeds in the afterlife.

    I’m not saying that one should continue to be evil or be a victim because it may have been a plan. But what is important, is to learn from the experience. That is the key.

    There is another beautiful book concerning this concept written by J.D. Krishnmurti called Freedom From the Known. He talks about the ultimate wisdom on earth as having been attained when one can be the observer AND the observed.

    GREAT comment Tiffany!

    Pat

  • Skoshi

    You are a bunch of terrific souls! And fast learners. You’re all an inspiration to me.

    My mother was abusive right up to on her death bed. By the time of her death, she had alienated her husband, her son, her grandson, her siblings, her neighbors, everyone at the churches she attended over the years, and co-workers. I was the only one there for her. I decided no matter what she had done, that I was going to be true to myself so later I wouldn’t regret having abandoned her. I’m really glad I took that path and didn’t create (hopefully!) additional negative karma for anyone.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Dang you have incredible resolve, Skoshi! And the love it must have taken to overcome the resentment..surely you are a guardian angel on earth sent to teach us all. I so love who you are and what you’ve given to all of our lives, now and in the future!

  • Skoshi

    Thank you. I don’t think of myself that way. I get energized by all you wonderful souls.

  • Melanie

    Tiffany you said exactly what I am feeling. I now look at my friends, family and even myself through completely different eyes. I appreciate you, Elisa and Erik, for everything. You have made me more spiritual and closer to God in reading this. I would like to say Thank You. I find myself talking to Erik at night. It is now part of my nightly routine to just to talk to him about what is going on and it has helped me so much. Yes I still pray to God. This is much more a conversation with Erik. I was outside yesterday smoking (yes I know it is bad) but a butterfly that was bright yellow and black fluttered around me for over 10 minutes. It was beautiful and I immediately thought of Erik and his beautiful soul. Now that I am writing this I remember seeing a butterfly last week that was neon blues and blacks that hung around for several minutes. Even sitting on the ground right in front of me so I could admire its beauty. I have not seen such colors before. Fly Erik Fly

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Aw, Erik always wanted to fly. What a sweet boy. His 21st birthday is coming up soon.

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