Val’s Questions
My maternal grandmother committed suicide before I was born, when my mother was only seventeen years old. She’s the one that found her similar to how you found Erik. I was born four years later, and needless to say it has had quite an impact on my family. This happened long ago and the emotional and financial reverberations from it are still being felt today. I’ve had several people die throughout my life including my mother in 2007. So, yeah I have a million questions, but I’m not exactly sure what it is I want to ask him nor am I sure I’m prepared for the answers he may have. Right now I have more questions for you about what I should ask Erik, when the time comes.
Again, thank you so much your time and the time and energy you put into this blog. How great are you?! Take care and say hi to Erik for me.
Sincerely, Val
After encouraging her to give Erik a chance, she provided me with additional information:
I’m Val and I’m 39 years old. I live in XXXX. My Grandmother, V., committed suicide in XXXX. My mother Lula died in XXXX of cancer at 55 years old. What I want know is, was my grandmother there to meet my mom when she crossed over? Are they together now? How is their relationship now? And last but not least, of all the ceramic sconces to break why did she (my mom) break the “Sing” one? Not long after my mother passed things around the house started falling on the floor. It was pretty consistent. I would say it happened about three or four times a week for about 2 1/2 or 3 months or so. Things that had been hanging secure on my walls for years were jumping off or falling off left and right. Things were falling off counters, tables, desks. At home and at work. Finally one day it occurred to me that it could be my mom. I finally shouted “Alright, I hear you. You’re scaring me, please stop”. And of course it stopped. Occasionally things will fall but not at the rate they were prior to me acknowledging her. And that goose bumpy thing, that has never stopped, and I know it’s her. Sometimes when I’m lying on the couch close to falling asleep it feels like someone is touching me.
My father and mother weren’t together at the time of her death. His wife, Madeleine, my step-mom had died a year earlier, and he was trying to comfort me…in the only the way he could. He said he felt very bad for my mother because she would not get to see my grandmother in heaven because she committed suicide and it was a sin against God. It actually made him cry. I knew it came from his grief and that it wasn’t malicious. He felt bad that she would up in heaven all alone. I know in my heart what he said were words of grief and that it’s not true but confirmation would be so nice. Did they work everything out? Are they together? How is their relationship now?
Channeling Transcript
Me: This next one is from Val. She’s 39 and lives in XXXX. Her grandmother, V. committed suicide before she was born. She died in XXXX. Val wants to know if V. was there to meet her mother and if they’re together now. If they are, how is their relationship?
Erik: They’re both here and their relationship is fine. About the grandmother that killed herself, she was so happy to die, so happy to get out of her misery.
Me: Oh, okay.
Erik: She didn’t do it to make anybody else upset or to punish anyone. She really did it to save herself. She says meeting the daughter was really, really wonderful, because they got to make amends. Apparently, Lula was beside herself about how her mother was when she was alive. So their relationship is not strained any more. In fact, it’s actually…changed. The grandmother wasn’t an easy woman to deal with. Really bossy and critical. Now Lula, she’s the kind of person who gets along with almost everyone.
Me: Oh, good!
Erik: They got a lot of shit taken care of as mother and daughter on the earthly plane, and they’re glad they worked through it all. They’re actually very close—soul sisters.
Me: Well, that’s good to hear!
Erik: The mom, Lula, is hoping to stay in contact with Val to help change the relationship more so in the family, cuz apparently it created a pattern.
Me: Interesting. Now, Val also said that right after her mom, Lula, died, all sorts of things started to fall like pictures on the walls and stuff. Finally, Val had to tell her to stop. Now it stopped, or, well, it actually just slowed down significantly, and…
Erik: Yes, that was her. That’s her mom. She’s been really very passionate about getting a hold of Val. She has messages for her, and she wants to be heard!
Me: To help her know what?
Erik: To know that she needs to channel her and keep on with the relationship. Lula wants to give her some guidance on how to stop certain patterns in the family. She needs her attention for like 30 minutes a day.
Me: Oh, and why did she break the ceramic sconce named “Sing?”
Erik: There was singing in the family and this is Lula’s way of confirming this is her. It’s not in her nature to be destructive. It was just an important message to send.
Hopefully, Val will practice her channeling and continue to strengthen her relationship with her mom. This is yet another example of how Love knows no boundaries; even Death cannot obstruct it.
For those of you who wish to learn to channel, I’d like to remind you to check out the free one-hour teleseminar Kim offers on her website. In it, she provides wonderful tips and suggestions on how to channel your angels and others in the afterlife.
