Channeling Erik

September12th

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Ask Erik: Lois’s Questions

Posted in: After Death Communication, Afterlife, Bereaved, Between Lives, Channeling, Communication from the dead, Contact with the dead, Crossing over, Death of a Parent, Death of a sibling, Grief, Grieving, Heaven, Loss of a sibling, Mental illness, Messages from the dead, Pranks from spirits, Psychic medium, Sibling relationships, Struggles

Enjoy, this, the last question during the session with Jamie on the 16 of August. Bear with me, folks, because I’m trying to work through three channeling sessions that were scheduled within one week. I applaud your patience.

For all you newcomers, I strongly suggest you start at the very first entry and work your way through. There is so much information to be had about God, the afterlife, time, the soul, reincarnation, and so on, all from the perspective of a soul who, like us, is flawed, but determined to make a difference and to make up for his mistakes. Although I thank you from the bottom of my heart every single day, Sweet Erik, I often forget to do so publicly. I am so grateful for the insider information you give us all, for the dedication with which you provide it, and for the love you show in every channeling session we have together. I love you, love you, love you.

Lois’s Question

Elisa, wow so many lives you are touching, I am so blessed to have found you, so soon after my brother Steve died. I know as a mother, that Erik was your love, your life your joy. And to share this experience with everyone who is open to the love you share, Makes my heart feel joy. I can’t know your sorrow for Eric, In this lifetime anyway. But have known grief. in my post I asked about Steve 59, Butchie 39 Mom (Pauline) 79 Dad ( Kyle) 71 all Boise Idaho I am 58 Meridian Idaho. Thank-you so much for your help.

Channeling Transcript

Me: Okay, Darling. I think I have time to get one more in.

Jamie: Oh, there’s time.

Me: Okay, well the last one I’m going to ask about today then is from Lois. She wants to ask about Steve, 59, Butchie, 39—oh, she’s 58 and lives in Meridian, Idaho, yeah, so I guess Steve and Butchie are her siblings. She also wants to ask about her mom, Pauline, and her dad, Kyle, both in their 70s from Boise, Idaho. But I guess we can just start with Steve.

Erik: So her whole family passed on except one surviving sister? I see another female in there. Could be another sibling beside her too.

Me: I really have no idea. She didn’t say. I got the impression that she doesn’t have any siblings living, but I’m not at all sure about that.

(Long pause)

Me: Lois didn’t write very much in her email. But anyway, is Steve there, Erik?

(Long pause)

Jamie: There you are!!

Erik: Dude, you’re late!

Steve: I didn’t think you were going to get to me!

(Jamie and I laugh)

Jamie: He keeps showing me a picture of a barn. Don’t know why. It’s not a pretty sky, either. It’s kind of like dusk,  overcast, rainy, really gloomy.

Me: Okay.

Erik: He’s not really talking about the barn, Mom. Lois is really curious, but also sad at the same time. She feels like she doesn’t really belong where she is.

Me: Okay. Is he doing okay?

Erik: He says he is, but he misses his family.

Steve: I understand why I died.

Me: Was it your destiny or something?

Steve: My time was up, but I really wish I had had more notice.

Jamie: I guess to him, his death was sudden.

Me: Any other messages, uh—what did he die from? Heart attack or—

Erik: The hand, tough, tight hand.

Jamie: What side is it when you have a heart attack? Isn’t it, uh…

Me: It could be either.

Jamie: Really?

Me: Yeah. Mostly the left, but it could be on both sides or neither side.

Erik: Because he’s saying it was the writing hand. That’s what he’s showing. I don’t know if he was left or right handed. Dude, just spit it out!

(Pause)

Erik: He says, “Please give my sister permission to move. Tell her we all support it.”

Me: Okay, good! Any messages from Butchie?

Jamie (laughing): Apparently there’s a lot of humor there. I think he’s your prankster of the family. He’s kind of a, but it’s sort of a sarcastic humor, where you’re like, “That so wrong!”

Me (laughing): He must have that irreverent humor like Erik has!

Erik: Guilty!

Me: If he’s 39, I don’t know if he’s a brother. Who know, it could be a cousin or something. I guess it doesn’t make any difference.

Erik: He’s showing me a blue car. It’s an older car.

Me: Is he doing okay?

Erik: He’s doing fine. He says he doesn’t mind being “dead.” He had a lot of shit to deal with on the earthly plane, you know?

Me: No, I don’t know. She didn’t tell me anything about him. I don’t know if he was even her brother or cousin or what.

Erik: He’s her brother. That’s what he’s saying. He had a lot of shit going on with his brain and, uh, this is kinda the first time he’s been contacted—

Me: Oh!

Erik: —and it looks like Lois is the only one who’d ever consider venturing out that way. So he really appreciates that.

Me: Oh, good! Aw! How about Pauline and Kyle, the mom and dad? Any messages from them?

Jamie: Lois’s parents?

Me: Yeah, uh huh.

Erik: Yeah, they’re here and they’re talking to Lois about financial stuff. It’s about selling and moving—financial security.

Me: Okay.

Erik: This is like in the next three years. This isn’t far off.

Jamie: This is weird, because didn’t the brother say something about giving her permission to move?

Me: Yeah. So that makes sense, yeah. How are they doing? Are they all right?

Erik: Oh, they’re very much together.

Me: Awwww, good!

Erik: And so they’re still loving the presence of each other and watching their family.

Jamie: That’s really sweet.

Me; Awww! Anything else from those two?

Erik: No. They really just worry about her, financially. It’d be easier to start selling some stuff, moving, creating financial security. And what’s weird is when they show Lois, they only show her by herself. They don’t show her doing all this with somebody else. It’s like she has to make this decision mostly on her own.

Me: Okay, I guess our time is out. Thank you both so much. Wow, it looks like you have a house full of people there, Jamie!

Jamie (laughing): Yeah, it started out with a few and then…

Me: I love you, Erik, my Sweet. Jamie, I’ll make an appointment for the next one on your website. Just, thanks, You’re so great, This has been really fun!

Erik: Bye, Mom. Love you.

Me: Oh. I love you too, Baby.

Lois’s Response

Elisa, Thank you and Thank you Erik. I do have a sister and one brother left. So much of what was said is true. The not belonging is so true. When Steve died, I was in Washington state at my daughter’s. It was pouring rain the whole time and gloomy. She does have a barn, and so do I in Idaho. I did not want to attend his funeral. My family was aware of this, but felt they had to remove me from their Facebook friends to get the message, they were not pleased with my decision, Steve’s wife included. So right now I don’t belong. Butchie was a prankster, He was mentally disabled and had epilepsy, But he loved a good prank (right-on) He was always my favorite. We just had a financial meltdown and lost basically everything. We have an inheritance from my husband’s family, land we are trying to sell, then we will have to move, because this is where we live. My parents were always very much in love. That is great they still are. You have changed my way of thinking with your blog. Erik I hope you come visit. I love the smells! You have a family of friends here in Idaho. Tiffany and Elise you already know!  Thank-you again!

My love to you,

Lois

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  • Christine

    Where are all the terrorists that killed so many on Sept 11? What about the innocents killed?

  • Paul

    Hi Christine,

    Are you asking why the innocent ones killed on 9-11-01 have not come through? Actually, there have been several 9-11 victims that have come through to their families. A woman named Bonnie McEneaney wrote a book entitled Messages. She was also featured on one of those news shows. Here is the web site featuring her book. http://www.lemondrop.com/2010/06/21/bonnie-mceneaney-messages-9-11-life-after-death/?icid=main|main|dl3|link3|http%3A%2F%2Fwww.lemondrop.com%2F2010%2F06%2F21%2Fbonnie-mceneaney-messages-9-11-life-after-death%2F

    As to the terrorists and their condition after death; Any person that believes that they are doing the will of God by murdering innocent people will be in for a rude awakening. They will go through a life review like anyone else. When they realize that they have committed an atrocity against their fellow man and against God they will suffer greatly. The suffering does not come from God. The suffering will come from themselves as they realize they had been duped into believing that killing innocent ones curried God’s favor.

    If they want to they can be reformed. They are not forced to reform, but the option is there. There are a host of enlightened souls that are willing to help even these ones, but they must request that help.

    The only truth is infinite love since the Father is infinite love. The only pathway to truth leads through the roadway of unconditional love. If the terrorists and their masters would stop to see the damage that they are doing to themselves they would be greatly disturbed. Since we are part of the Infinite One it is like we are hurting ourselves when we hurt others.

    Love,
    Paul

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Yes! Didn’t she write about it on Huffpo Recently? Great article recommended by one of you guys: Sherry? Skoshi? Arggghh, can’t remember. The fever from my crud is taxing one of my two remaining brain cells!

  • http://channelingerik Pat

    Hi Christine,

    Thanks Paul for your insightful comment and for the link to Lemondrop. It is amazing how parallel the 9/11 widow’s experience seems to be to Elisa’s. The more one reads about these types of experiences, the more convinced one has to be that there really is something to all this.

    I was reading a remarkable account of Mellen-Thomas Benedict’s near death experience and can’t help but recall a poignant description of “Oneness” or “All There Is” as Paul describes so beautifully above. Benedict explained his near death experience in this way…

    “So creation is God exploring God’s Self through every way imaginable, in an ongoing, infinite exploration through every one of us. Through every piece of hair on your head, through every leaf on every tree, through every atom, God is exploring God’s Self, the great “I am”. I began to see that everything that is, is the Self, literally, your Self, my Self. Everything is the great Self.”

    So, if we are truly All One, then once the terrorist sees this in the afterlife, he then realizes that he killed “himself” as well and his remorse in doing so is the agonizing consequence of his actions.

    I truly believe that this is what is meant by the following:

    “Inasmuch as ye did it unto one of these my brethren, even these least, ye did it unto me.”

    Beautiful comment Paul….{{{hugs}}}

    If interested, here is the link to Benedict’s near death experience: http://www.reversespins.com/astudyofNDE.html

  • Paul

    Hi Pat,

    You are absolutely right! I had always wondered why God would create others if He was complete in Himself and did not need anything. Of course, He wanted to create creatures so that He could share the gift of life and the gift of love. And He has done that in great measure.

    The Infinite Father knows all, yet there is something that He never went through. He never started life from the bottom rung scaling the heights towards Paradise. So, the Infinite Father lives vicariously through our experiences. He solved the great gap between His finite creatures by sending a piece of Himself to live in our minds. Some persons call this the spark of God or the Father within.

    Since I have discovered this Father within I have felt such beauty as I have never felt before. I have felt a gentle push to be more loving and to love people unconditionally. That is a very difficult thing to do. But as I try to do that more and more I feel myself growing. So, as we embrace the love of the Father and express that love we grow to become like the Father.

    The real truth is who we are becoming each moment. Truth cannot be words in a book. Truth is in the living. Truth is life as it is lived and as it is expressed in love. As our internal world matches the external world we are becoming in truth like the I AM.

    Love,
    Paul

  • Tiffany

    Lois, I am so happy you have received answers that you have been searching for. I feel the peace inside that you are beginning to give yourself permission to feel. You may feel like you don’t belong with your blood family right now, however, you do have a family of friends (you know who they are) that LOVE you and will always support you at all times. :) I love you and thank you for your friendship all these years!

  • Skoshi

    Hi, All. I came down with a bad cold on Friday and have been sleeping a lot and not reading. After 9/11, loved ones implored John Edward to do a session just for them. He resisted for a while because he felt it was too fresh and raw but finally agreed. It was televised. And very moving. I imagine if googled, one could find youtube and other copies of it.

  • Skoshi

    P.S. We are One. Seeking revenge against criminals only hurts our Self. I believe it is Delores Cannon who, when doing regressions, relates people talking about people who have had a very hard life arriving in the Unfettered Life with their energy scattered, so badly so that at times it needs to be reformed; others, who are unrepentent criminals and cruel, she reports are sometimes beyond ever wanting to change, and their energy is entirely re-formed. This is another area rich for questions for Erik and Elisa’s book.

  • Danielle Notaro

    One of my favorite’s from Seth was that God created life out of great ecstasy not out of a feeling of responsibility. There’s more to it than what I can’t remember right now.

  • Skoshi

    Thanks, Elisa. I hope you’re better too! : D

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