Channeling Erik

October1st

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Ask Erik: Kylie’s Questions

Posted in: After Death Communication, Bipolar disease, Channeling, Communication from the dead, Contact with the dead, Life, Mental illness, Messages from the dead, Psychic medium, Struggles, Suffering, Suicide

Kylie’s Questions

Dear Elisa,

I am going thru some tough times right now and I am not sure what I am supposed to be doing (or not doing) The last 4 yrs have been awful.  I was diagnosed with bipolar.  I am 44 yrs old.  I have 4 kids, all boys.  I’ve been divorced for 13 yrs.  I’m sorry this story is so fragmented, its so confusing and sad I cannot put it in perspective.  Since my BP diagnoses my “ex” has turned my kids against me claiming I am crazy.  I feel crazy.  I’ve suffered from depression most of my life and with bouts of suicidal ideation.  Since the loss of my children its been worse.  I tried my best to be a good parent.  I came from a neglectful home (alcoholic father and horrible mother) I thought I had gotten away from that when I married my ex, but all he wanted was someone to birth his children and be submissive.  I thought i was doing the right thing by ending the marriage so my boys didn’t grow up thinking that is how you treat women, instead he took custody from me and has spent the last 13 yrs telling them I am a horrible person.

I am at my wits end with life.  I’m a good person but yet life has shown me otherwise. I don’t understand.  I know you are busy and if this is not the right place to contact you I completely understand.

Thanks for listening.

Kylie

Channeling Transcript

Me: Okay, Erik, Kylie needs your help here. She’s 44 years old and has bipolar disorder. She has four boys, has been divorced for 13 years, and uh, let’s see. I don’t see where she lives, but… Um, her ex-husband has pretty much turned her kids against her since her diagnosis. Now, he has custody of the kids.

Jamie: She’s on medication for the bipolar?

Me: I don’t know. And I’m not sure what questions she has. Maybe just some comforting advice or direction would help.

Jamie: I keep seeing multiple pills, like 2 or 3.

Me: Erik, you know how it is to be in that situation, of course, so I hope you can help her.

Erik: Amen! As long as she can take the medicine, she can stay more centered, but she’s always going to have moments of anxiety and out-of-body.

Me: Okay.

Erik: Look, the best way to go against the husband’s deceit is not verbally. DO NOT DO IT VERBALLY! Tell her to keep a log of how she feels and how she loves her children, kinda in a journal, you know?

Me: Yes, I understand.

Erik: And she will know when the moment is right. It might be a birthday; it might be Christmas or another holiday, when you cam give the kid the journal to read.

Me: Oh! Great idea!

Erik: So it’s not about keeping up daily connections or even weekly or monthly ones right now. Tell her to let it go, let it go, because she can’t win. If she fights just a small fight all the time, it really doesn’t prove anything.

Me: Yep. Yep.

Erik: And she can only do a small fight against this guy. He’s a real jerk! Total asshole. So I’d tell her to pull back, rescue herself, write these things, because writing words of love will also help to heal her. And I beg her, I beg her to take the time with these journals and take it seriously! So when she hands it over to them, it’s an explanation of months of what she’s been going through: her feelings of torment, of wanting peace and her story, plus the way she feels about each of them.

Me: Uh, huh. Yeah!

Erik: But she needs to write about how the situation has made her feel instead of criticism the dad. She doesn’t want this to look lie an argument like a closing case in a courtroom. It’s just, “This is how I feel. This is my truth.” No one knows somebody better than their own self.

Me: Any other advice for her, Baby?

Erik: Mom, be sure to tell her that she’s beautiful inside and out.

Me: Oh, I will!

Erik: Okay.

Me: Oh, yeah, and what was the purpose of her having—

Erik: The marriage?

Me: Well, no, or yes, I guess, but also the bipolar disorder. Yeah, maybe both.

Erik: The purpose of the disease is to help her truly connect with how she’s feeling. Because without that, she would just be the quiet mind and then the purpose of the marriage was just to get the children. The children are the ones going through the lessons.

Me: Oh, the kids are going through it?

Erik: Uh huh. The parents are just playing the roles, the negative roles. They each have negative attributes, so they’re the ones taking the hit and the kids are the ones learning the lessons.

Me: So are you saying the guy is not truly a jerk, that he’s just playing the role of the jerk for the benefit of the kids and their growth?

Erik: Yep. Correct.

Since her initial email. I have yet to have any response from Kylie, which is not her real name. I did a search just now and found her obituary. She died September 12th. Why oh why didn’t I get the word for word transcript to her sooner? Maybe she would have survived. I’m devastated. My heart is ripped in two once again. Please, Dear Erik, find her and help her. Tell her I’m so sorry I couldn’t save her. This is a very sad day.

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  • Stephanie

    Oh Elisa,
    I’m so sorry to read this, but you are blameless here. Please remember that and be gentle with yourself!
    Love,
    Stephanie

  • Paul Conklin

    Dear Elisa,

    I am sorry to hear that “Kylie” has passed. There is only so much you can do. You can throw your love into the wind, but you are never quite sure if it will return to you. Be assured that “Kylie” is being well cared for and that the woes of this world are fading away. I will keep her in my prayers.

    Love,
    Paul

  • Lisa Potter

    Wow, I wasn’t expecting that ending. Elisa, I totally understand you feeling in some way responsible for not getting her answer to her sooner, but I expect you will work past that and accept that it was her journey, period. I imagine she knows now of your efforts in her behalf and is very appreciative. Bless her heart, what a painful life. And bless you for all that you do for everyone! You are amazing.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Thanks, LIsa, but it does make me feel so empty and sad. I wish she had had a chance to see what Erik said. I emailed her the summary on the 3rd, she died on the 12th. I’m guessing suicide. I feel sad for her 4 boys.

  • Kate

    OMG. This post was breaking my heart until I even got to the end. Maybe Erik can get in touch with Kylie and she can talk to you. Bipolar is so horrific. That’s why my loved one died. Oh, it is just so awful.

  • kanopatra

    Dear Elisa,

    I can inmagine you were heartbroken when you found out. It also made me cry.
    It made me think of the words I spoke at my mothers funeral. Taken from a (Dutch)book that is called “As free as a butterfly”.

    Freedom

    In reality, every step we make.
    Is a step into the “not known” unknown. Surprising that security brings unrest.
    And the admission of uncertainty rest

    On a day, we awaken in ourselves.
    Free, smiling, nothing to pretend.
    Nothing to turn away from.

    Walking in the footsteps of ourselves.
    On our way Home.

    I hope Kylie is Home now.

    Elisa, I love you.

    Kano

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Aw, I love you too, Kano! This poem is so settling for me…soothing and loving. Thanks for sharing it.

  • Denise

    Life is so precarious for some people.
    It seems to me that bipolar is one of the most difficult conditions to manage. The intensity appears to be so unpredictable and emotions are so much a part of it. I never heard of bipolar disorder growing up(I’m old.); diagnosis seem to have escalated in the last few decades. Are diseases and conditions are prepared on the other side as a means of fulfilling certain lessons on this side? How is this developed in the human physiology and what purpose does it serve? It would be an interesting discussion with Erik.

  • Sharon

    Dear Elisa,
    Many suffering with Bipolar Disorder experience a different plane of existence and we cannot always understand what they are thinking. We do the best we can for them, but it does not always turn out positively (as I learned with my son). You are a caring person and I know this hurts, but please be kind to yourself. You help so many. I pray “Kylie” is surrounded by love and light in her new life. I also pray she will be able to connect with her boys in her spirit form, since she was denied that in life.

  • Skoshi

    I’m so glad to know that she has good help in the unfettered state and that she isn’t in hellfire or some such other condition. I’ll ask Grandmother Stanley if she can contact her and soothe her dear heart.

    When my friend Ellen was dying, her son was 12. I told her there would be things she could do for her son from there that she couldn’t do from here, because she would be able to see him at all times and know what he was thinking and feeling. I hope “Kylie” will soon be comforted and learn how to reach out and communicate with her sons.

  • lidian

    Elisa,
    luv yu, luv yu, luv yu. That is truly a horrible thing to have gone through – it’s going to sting for a while that’s for sure…but from a larger perspective i know you know it’s OK and the universe is unfolding as it should (damn it!!!!)

  • Lisa Potter

    Perhaps when she is ready, Erik will bring her through and you’ll be able to talk with her. We can probably assume she read the email, right? It is an empty and sad story, from this side of the veil……

  • Alexis

    Dearest Elisa,
    Together, you and Erik have been able to help so many people throughout these past months. Perhaps her ‘wounds’ were just too severe, her burden too dark & heavy to continue; perhaps it was just not meant to be. Certainly you are not at fault and she is now at peace. We can pray that as her boys get older, they will know her truth; how much their mother loved them and learn to understand her painful, debilitating illness. We can pray that they will feel her loving presence and guidance as she is now able to be with them, always.
    Much Love,
    XOX
    Alexis

  • Tiffany

    Oh my goodness. My heart is sad for Kylie. If only we could all reach everyone, in need, in time…Yes, Elisa, please be gentle with yourself. I know words, sometimes, are of no solace, but know you are loved.

  • Steve

    Oh my gosh, how devastating! She and her husband are relationship villains for the kids, for their growth! But somehow I don’t think that her life ending (if this was suicide) was part of her contract her on earth. What a shame! I’m quite sure she is being supported on the other side and will get a chance again to correct all of this, though – especially since she chose the negative role out of love for the growth of her kids.

  • Melanie

    Wow. What an ending… I can not believe it. Elisa, you did all you could. Sometimes we can not help everyone. I understand your sadness and pain, I just do not want to see you blame yourself AT ALL for this. Wow… I’m in shock. I am so sorry… to you and to all her family. So So sad…
    I will say a prayer tonight for everyone…
    Life… I just do not understand it.
    xoxo

  • Julia

    Oh Elisa,
    How heartbreaking. I have a friend who is the victim of parental alienation syndrome. It is very evil. I hope the four boys learn truth from each other and not from their father.

  • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

    God, I love you all so much. I love, love, love you. I think my heart might explode. I’ll send some of that love to “Kylie.” And I will ask Erik about her, about the rise in Bipolar disorder, etc.

  • epeavey

    Oh Elisa, I’m not sure even what to say other than the fact that Kylie now knows ALL of this, and is hopefully at peace. She went through the life she did as a lesson for her children, what an incredible soul to agree to such an experience to benefit others. Rest in Peace Kylie!! Sending an immense amount of love to you, your children, and to your ex-husband!

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      :-)

  • http://www.facebook.com/robert.f.burke Robert Burke

    Erik is saying to “Go for it”…so here goes… :-) Kylie is perfectly fine now…a little disoriented and stuff…but it isn’t anything she wont overcome with spiritual counseling…oh and she now sees just how radiantly beautiful she is…both inside and out. also, she doesn’t want anyone to feel heartbroken over this. all is as it should be. :-)

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Oh, I’m so glad Erik found her and will help her adjust to things. THanks so much for sharing this with us, Robert!

  • Shannon

    “Kylie’s” story is so painful. Please know that she is no longer suffering internally or externally. Unfortunately I can too easily relate to how she must have felt at times. There is no pain like knowing your kids are in an environment that is toxic and not being able to do anything about it. My only saving grace is that my kids see their dad for the man he really is, even though he seems to have buffaloed the entire judicial system. I almost envy Kylie’s ability to exit her situation.

    Elisa, there is nothing you could have done or said in person or through Spirit that would have made life any easier or less painful for her. Thank you for caring enough to try.

    S.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Shannon, whenever you feel like “Kylie” please talk to us, your new family. We love you and want you around.

  • Skoshi

    Dear Shannon, please remember that Kylie hasn’t exited her situation. She’s dealing with it wherever she is and probably will reincarnate and pick up where she left off. In the great majority of cases, suicide only adds one more complication to an already difficult situation, and what a legacy for her children to deal with! I’ve talked here before about my fiend whose sister committed suicide and she raised her sister’s 4 children. They’re all SO messed up, anorexic, and 2 of them are often openly suicidal themselves.

  • http://www.facebook.com/robert.f.burke Robert

    I was so happy to share, Elisa. :-) Erik is a busy Spirit, eh? Love you!

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