Channeling Erik

September7th

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Ask Erik: Julie’s Question

Posted in: After Death Communication, Afterlife, Bereaved, Channeling, Communication from the dead, Contact with the dead, Crossing over, Death, Death of a Child, Dream visitation, Dreams, Energy, Grief, Grieving, Heaven, Love, Mental illness, Psychic medium, Quantum Physics of the Soul, Spirit visitation, Spirits working with Energy, Spiritual presence, Struggles, The Physics of Consciousness, The Physics of Heaven, The Physics of Thought, Violent deaths

My heart breaks for this bereaved mother. How well I know her pain. I hope Erik and Jake can help her find some sliver of peace and joy in the darkness to which she and I have grown accustomed.

Julie’s Question
I lost my son Jake March 27 of this year. I do not know where to start my journey, where to find him and how to find a place in this “new”  life for me; open to anyone’s thoughts.
Julie

After a Request for Additional Information
You asked for info: Jake was 23. He was in Guyton, GA. He died at the hospital in Savannah. I am in Windham, ME, and I am 48 years old.
Julie

Channeling Transcript
Me: Okay, Sweetie. This next one if from Julie. She’s 48 years old and lives in Windham, Maine. She lost her—

Erik (interrupting): Julie is cute.

Me: Pardon me?

Jamie: Erik thinks Julie has a cute personality.

Me (laughing): Oh, okay! Anyway, she lost her son, Jake when he was 23 years old. He lived in Guyton, Georgia but died in Savannah. She just doesn’t know where to begin her journey in search of him and needs some direction. Can you help her, Erik?

Jamie: Hit in the head?

Me: I don’t know, maybe. I really don’t know how he died. I know he died in the hospital at Savannah, uh, how is he doing? Is he okay now?

Jamie: Erik is just showing me impact to the head on the left lower side. I don’t know why that, um, but—

Erik: Jake has healed WONDERFULLY. He’s with his spiritual family. There are three things he wants his mom to do.

(pause)

Erik (laughing): Jake is VERY organized! So the first is, whenever his mom feels like grieving over him and missing him, she needs to force a smile on her face—

Me: Okay.

Erik: —and pretend that she’s happy for the new life that he has, because in that practice of pretending, she’ll trigger herself to turn grief into joy.

Me: Okay. Fake it til you make it, huh?

Erik: The second is to acknowledge whenever she thinks about him, it’s because he’s standing around her. It’s not just her going through a heartache of memory. Jake is just force triggering memories cuz his soul is next to hers and the energies being close to each other can trigger emotions.

Me: Okay. It sounds like he’s there with you, Erik. Is he?

Erik: Oh yeah, of course.

Me: Gotcha.

Erik: He’s wearing jeans and like a designer t-shirt. He’s calling it a designer t-shirt.

Me: Okay.

Erik: It doesn’t have a collar on it or anything so I’d call it a t-shirt, but it’s nice looking. Hair cut short, military like. Oh, and the third things, he says, is when his mom gets an impression, he wants her to write it down on paper.

(pause)

Me: Eventually, he’ll come to her in dreams, I guess? Or will he manifest himself in ways that give her comfort?

Erik: Absofuckinlutely. Total manifestation. But he needs his Mom to be in the right frame of mind, to get her energy frequency a little higher. So that’s why he’s asking her to do some of these technical things.

Me: So are you saying you have to match the energy levels? When we grieve, our energy is so dense, it must be hard to get through.

Erik and Jake both say “Yes” simultaneously.

Erik: You know, you all are like at summer camp. Jake and me are home, the real home. It’s weird to watch people grieve on the earthly plane, because we’re not really dead. No one dies. We just went home a little earlier, you know? Oh, I forgot to tell you; Jake likes to sing, and he’s writing a song for his mom.

Me: Awwww, that’s so sweet!

Erik: Yeah, he’s gotta good voice, a good singing voice.

Me: Hopefully better than our voices, huh, Erik?

Erik: Yeah, right!

Me: Okay, wonderful! Let’s go to the next one. I feel like we’re going to help so many people; this is so awesome, Erik.

I hope Julie hears Jake’s song one day soon. And I hope she feels the love pouring out to her both from Heaven and from all of us. You are loved, Julie, and so is Jake. He has never really left you and never will.

  • stephanie

    That is amazing – I can’t wait to read Julie’s reaction!!
    xo,
    Stephanie

  • sharon77

    I look forward to Julie’s reaction as well. When Erik said it’s like he’s home and we’re at summer camp it totally made sense to me.

  • Lyn

    Love to you Julie, I hope you start connecting more and more with Jake. I’m so glad you found your way to Erik and Elisa :)
    Much Love,
    Lyn S

  • Skoshi

    When I used to see John Edward and Sylvia Browne on TV, I realized one of the questions they get asked the most by people is whether their “deceased” loved ones missed them. They always answer: no, because we’re not WITHOUT you! They still have access to us. It’s a shame it isn’t easier for us to realize our access to them.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Yes, and I get the feeling the deceased look at us sometimes and think, “You’re being silly! I’ve just taken off my costume and exited the stage. Why are you crying? I’m just in the audience now.” So I don’t think they grieve or us that much, but they are sad for our sadness. It’s like when I used to take my kids to get their immunizations or drop them off to camp. My heart would break to see tears roll down their faces, but inside, I know their fears and sadness are not as warranted as they think.

  • shellaing

    The 3 things Erik mentioned are very helpful tools for any of us. Thank you Erik. Barney’s birthday was yesterday, Sept 7th and he would have been 30 years old. I am sure it is my grief that is making it hard to feel him around me, tho I know he is. I will practice faking it til I make it. When I was reading about us being at summer camp and them being home, I started crying and then the camp song from Alan Sherman…”Hello Mudda, hello fadda, here I am at camp Granada, take me home….”popped into my head…a message from one of them…
    Julie, I lost my son in November. I would be happy to email with you. My email address is shelleylaing@comcast.net.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Sending you thoughts of love, Shelley. I know birthdays must be hard. Erik’s is coming up on the 21st.

  • shellaing

    My thoughts and love are with you too. Words of comfort from a friend of mine, “In the end, the love remains”.

  • Julie

    It has taken me some time to respond. I am a believer there is life after death. I was very taken back that so much was on target with Jake. I am trying to follow the lead and find my place with all this, it is very hard to not feel incrediable saddness each day from the moment I wake up until I go to sleep.
    Yesterday was my birthday.. I am almost certain Jake was here in the same form he was when we flew down to his funeral.. at our hotel. I had dreams of him last night, which makes me even more a believer he is close, maybe not all the time but I think he touches base.
    I shared the transcript with his wife, she does feel Eric made contact with Jake. Erin is hoping Jake will make his way to her, she has an enormous amount of pain and grief… maybe Eric could make sure Jake knows this.
    I will wait for a song, I to hope it happens one day~
    Thank you
    Julie

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      I asked Erin to familiarize herself with Erik’s voice by listening to a couple of the videos in the media gallery. He’s so easy to channel, so chatty. If she practices talking to him every night before she goes to bed, when her mind is quieter, his face will pop into her mind with that mischievous smile of his and he’ll talk a blue streak. She can ask him to come with Jake and once she’s good with channeling Erik, she’ll be able to channel Jake too and continue the relationship she had with him before.

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