Comments on: Ask Erik: Jeannine’s Question http://www.channelingerik.com/ask-erik-jeannines-question/ conversations with my son in the afterlife Sun, 05 Feb 2012 03:36:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Elisa Medhus, MD http://www.channelingerik.com/ask-erik-jeannines-question/comment-page-1/#comment-17583 Elisa Medhus, MD Sat, 24 Dec 2011 05:37:00 +0000 http://www.channelingerik.com/?p=323#comment-17583 ;-) ;-)

]]> By: pam http://www.channelingerik.com/ask-erik-jeannines-question/comment-page-1/#comment-1371 pam Sat, 31 Jul 2010 20:27:30 +0000 http://www.channelingerik.com/?p=323#comment-1371 Oh, Elisa....I'm teasing you. I haven't really asked any questions, yet. I trying to be polite and wait for the ASK ERIK button to come back and give you time to get caught up, LOL. But I've learned so much from you, Erik and Kim. I'm really thankful I found you guys! Oh, Elisa….I’m teasing you. I haven’t really asked any questions, yet. I trying to be polite and wait for the ASK ERIK button to come back and give you time to get caught up, LOL. But I’ve learned so much from you, Erik and Kim. I’m really thankful I found you guys!

]]> By: Elisa http://www.channelingerik.com/ask-erik-jeannines-question/comment-page-1/#comment-1352 Elisa Sat, 31 Jul 2010 17:12:43 +0000 http://www.channelingerik.com/?p=323#comment-1352 You're so right about all that Tom! Getting is pretty much over-rated. The best "getting" comes from the "giving." Giving is itself the most divine gift you can give yourself. Now that's a tongue twister, eh? You’re so right about all that Tom! Getting is pretty much over-rated. The best “getting” comes from the “giving.” Giving is itself the most divine gift you can give yourself. Now that’s a tongue twister, eh?

]]> By: Tom http://www.channelingerik.com/ask-erik-jeannines-question/comment-page-1/#comment-1342 Tom Sat, 31 Jul 2010 06:00:10 +0000 http://www.channelingerik.com/?p=323#comment-1342 Hi Elisa and Erik! I've been trying to follow all this, but your blog is becoming a VERY busy place! Lots of posts to read and almost endless comments! ACK! talk about grand central station! LOL....I gues you are to be congratulated on becoming so popular =D Anywho, ummm..I just wanted to chime in on the comments on "expectations" people have of others. In my Line of work, (pizza delivery) I get tips and such, but I have learned a long time ago not to 'expect' anything like that. It makes for a much more pleasant work shift. Some drivers are bitter about XYZ customer who doesn't tip or going someplace that doesn't make it worth their while etc. If I get something, it's a gift from my customer, it's THEIR money, to do with as they please, not mine, and it's not for me to expect or demand anything. This works in other ways as well, holding doors open for people, a pleasant smile, helping someone with a chore etc. we are all teacher and student at the same time. We give and others take / receive, but to 'expect' something equal in return for what ever the given task is not a good or positive 'expectation'. I gave up expecting anything from anyone long long ago. It started with my dad, he had his own way of doing or not doing, (passive aggressive and STUBBORN!) and so I just gave up. Nothing was going to get done no matter what and he would do what he wanted and when he wanted. So I just shut up and moved on and ignored the problems, for they were his problems and issues and not mine. Maybe thats why I am the way I am, having to deal with that 'stuff". Anyways, I have found this actually works and is very beneficial for inner peace and happiness. It's not my responsibility for others to learn or give back what they have received, it's simply out of my control. So I stay in my world and control and deal with what "I" can. The Serenity prayer sums it up nicely: " Dear GOD (or whom ever) Grant me serenity The courage to change the things I can The ability to accept the things I cannot change. .....and the wisdom to know the difference" Expectations of people and situations kind of go out the window with that, and it really does work. So things don't go your way ...MEH! Do what you can with what YOU have..and life will be much better. Also, having an "attitude of gratitude" never hurts as well (Dr wayne Dyre) Move on and teach, and learn from your teachings and the teachings of others and be happy in it, and leave your "expectations' for others in the dust, for thats all they really are. Again, Thanks for the post =D Tom Hi Elisa and Erik!
I’ve been trying to follow all this, but your blog is becoming a VERY busy place! Lots of posts to read and almost endless comments! ACK! talk about grand central station! LOL….I gues you are to be congratulated on becoming so popular =D
Anywho, ummm..I just wanted to chime in on the comments on “expectations” people have of others. In my Line of work, (pizza delivery) I get tips and such, but I have learned a long time ago not to ‘expect’ anything like that. It makes for a much more pleasant work shift. Some drivers are bitter about XYZ customer who doesn’t tip or going someplace that doesn’t make it worth their while etc. If I get something, it’s a gift from my customer, it’s THEIR money, to do with as they please, not mine, and it’s not for me to expect or demand anything.
This works in other ways as well, holding doors open for people, a pleasant smile, helping someone with a chore etc. we are all teacher and student at the same time. We give and others take / receive, but to ‘expect’ something equal in return for what ever the given task is not a good or positive ‘expectation’. I gave up expecting anything from anyone long long ago. It started with my dad, he had his own way of doing or not
doing, (passive aggressive and STUBBORN!) and so I just gave up. Nothing was going to get done no matter what and he would do what he wanted and when he wanted. So I just shut up and moved on and ignored the problems, for they were his problems and issues and not mine. Maybe thats why I am the way I am, having to deal with that ‘stuff”. Anyways, I have found this actually works and is very beneficial for inner peace and happiness. It’s not my responsibility for others to learn or give back what they have received, it’s simply out of my control. So I stay in my world and control and deal with what “I” can.
The Serenity prayer sums it up nicely:
” Dear GOD (or whom ever)
Grant me serenity
The courage to change the things I can
The ability to accept the things I cannot change.

…..and the wisdom to know the difference”

Expectations of people and situations kind of go out the window with that, and it really does work. So things don’t go your way …MEH!
Do what you can with what YOU have..and life will be much better. Also, having an “attitude of gratitude” never hurts as well (Dr wayne Dyre)
Move on and teach, and learn from your teachings and the teachings of others and be happy in it, and leave your “expectations’ for others in the dust, for thats all they really are.

Again, Thanks for the post =D

Tom

]]> By: mom2bzs http://www.channelingerik.com/ask-erik-jeannines-question/comment-page-1/#comment-1328 mom2bzs Sat, 31 Jul 2010 00:56:12 +0000 http://www.channelingerik.com/?p=323#comment-1328 Jeannine's post and reply really resonated with me. I also need to remember to not be absorbed by how other people react to me as a teacher. I'm so ready and willing to help others. I too expect others to treat me as I treat them. That's something I need to let go of also. Thanks for posting this Elisa. Very enlightening! Sherry Jeannine’s post and reply really resonated with me. I also need to remember to not be absorbed by how other people react to me as a teacher. I’m so ready and willing to help others. I too expect others to treat me as I treat them. That’s something I need to let go of also.

Thanks for posting this Elisa.

Very enlightening!

Sherry

]]> By: Elisa http://www.channelingerik.com/ask-erik-jeannines-question/comment-page-1/#comment-1327 Elisa Sat, 31 Jul 2010 00:13:36 +0000 http://www.channelingerik.com/?p=323#comment-1327 Thank you Kate! I know what you mean, because I often don't know what to make of it either. I'm finding my way too, so it's like the blind leading the blind! I'm glad you're part of the family now. Love you! Thank you Kate! I know what you mean, because I often don’t know what to make of it either. I’m finding my way too, so it’s like the blind leading the blind! I’m glad you’re part of the family now. Love you!

]]> By: Elisa http://www.channelingerik.com/ask-erik-jeannines-question/comment-page-1/#comment-1326 Elisa Sat, 31 Jul 2010 00:12:16 +0000 http://www.channelingerik.com/?p=323#comment-1326 Hey Lou, I plan to put up the Ask Erik page in a month or so when I get through the huge list of questions that came in after the Huff Post article was published. So look for it and I'll be happy to ask him. You can try channeling Erik yourself if you can memorize his voice. He says he hears the readers when they talk to him and he loves answering questions. Of course he often doesn't know those answers himself, but gets in contact with your guides, or a deceased loved one of yours or someone who will know. Can you tell me your friend's first name and age and city of death? It helps Erik a lot. Kim says cause of death rulings are wrong 20% of the time. It may have been an accident after all. Be nice to find out if the death was his destiny and if so, why. Hey Lou, I plan to put up the Ask Erik page in a month or so when I get through the huge list of questions that came in after the Huff Post article was published. So look for it and I’ll be happy to ask him. You can try channeling Erik yourself if you can memorize his voice. He says he hears the readers when they talk to him and he loves answering questions. Of course he often doesn’t know those answers himself, but gets in contact with your guides, or a deceased loved one of yours or someone who will know. Can you tell me your friend’s first name and age and city of death? It helps Erik a lot. Kim says cause of death rulings are wrong 20% of the time. It may have been an accident after all. Be nice to find out if the death was his destiny and if so, why.

]]> By: Elisa http://www.channelingerik.com/ask-erik-jeannines-question/comment-page-1/#comment-1323 Elisa Sat, 31 Jul 2010 00:03:39 +0000 http://www.channelingerik.com/?p=323#comment-1323 Aw, Mike, you are so sweet and I'm so glad to have you in our little family now. As far as your getting the signal to read the article, maybe you're psychically gifted? Most people with BPD are highly creative and intuitive, you know. I have trouble channeling too. My mind is like Grand Central Station. I do know for sure that our guides/angels never ever give up on us! I can tell Erik to visit you and maybe bring your guides into better focus. If you memorize his voice, it's easier to pick him up during channeling. He's just pop into your mind and start talking or he'll come to you in a dream. There are some videos of him scattered throughout the blog. Also, I just tried another medium if price is an issue. She was recommended by a reader and I thought she was great. Her name is Jeannie Barnes and she's $80/hour while Kim is $225/hour. Many are higher than that. And there will always be plenty of room in my heart for you, Sweetie. Always. Aw, Mike, you are so sweet and I’m so glad to have you in our little family now. As far as your getting the signal to read the article, maybe you’re psychically gifted? Most people with BPD are highly creative and intuitive, you know.

I have trouble channeling too. My mind is like Grand Central Station. I do know for sure that our guides/angels never ever give up on us! I can tell Erik to visit you and maybe bring your guides into better focus. If you memorize his voice, it’s easier to pick him up during channeling. He’s just pop into your mind and start talking or he’ll come to you in a dream. There are some videos of him scattered throughout the blog. Also, I just tried another medium if price is an issue. She was recommended by a reader and I thought she was great. Her name is Jeannie Barnes and she’s $80/hour while Kim is $225/hour. Many are higher than that.

And there will always be plenty of room in my heart for you, Sweetie. Always.

]]> By: Elisa http://www.channelingerik.com/ask-erik-jeannines-question/comment-page-1/#comment-1320 Elisa Fri, 30 Jul 2010 23:53:25 +0000 http://www.channelingerik.com/?p=323#comment-1320 Oo, Pam, I'll have to ground him for not answering your questions!!! (he he) Love you! Oo, Pam, I’ll have to ground him for not answering your questions!!! (he he) Love you!

]]> By: pam http://www.channelingerik.com/ask-erik-jeannines-question/comment-page-1/#comment-1310 pam Fri, 30 Jul 2010 20:48:40 +0000 http://www.channelingerik.com/?p=323#comment-1310 I love reading Erik's insights and the information he is passing along. Even though, he is not answering my questions, LOL, I am learning from the answers. I love reading Erik’s insights and the information he is passing along. Even though, he is not answering my questions, LOL, I am learning from the answers.

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