Channeling Erik

July2nd

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Ask Erik: Debbie’s Question

Posted in: After Death Communication, Afterlife, Astral Projection, Channeling, Communication from the dead, Contact with the dead, Crossing over, Dreams, Ghosts and Spirits, Grief, Grieving, Heaven, Kim O'Neill, Love, Messages from the dead, Psychic medium, Spirit visitation, Spiritual presence, The Physics of Consciousness, The Physics of Thought, Visitation

Since the Huffington Post article came out, the response has been amazing. So many people have questions for Erik that I’ve temporarily had to suspend the “Ask Erik” page until I get caught up. I am trying to see if Kim can squeeze in an extra session or two, but for now I’m on her waiting list for cancellations. Please know that Erik will get to everyone eventually. I also want to say how grateful we are that you’re giving us both this opportunity: For me, helping others helps me heal. Always has. For Erik, helping others is furthering his soul’s progress. You’re giving him a chance to repay a karmic debt, of sorts, since suicide is a big no-no. Now for the next question:

Debbie’s Question

Hello Elisa & Erik,

First of all please let me say you both are very amazing in what you are doing for people. The help that you offer has got to be a Godsend for all those who have loved ones that have passed to the other side. Your unselfishness is certainly to be commended. Since I found your blog there are not many days that go by that I don’t read whatever is posted. Sometimes I go back and re-read questions and things you have written. I have been interested in the spirit world since I was a little girl. I only wish I had the ability to channel or some kind of psychic ability to be able to connect.

Anyway, I have finally gotten enough courage to ask Erik a question. I had a very close friend who passed away suddenly with a heart attack back in 2001. His name is David H. and he lived in Little Rock, AR. I did not get to tell him goodbye, and there’s rarely a day that I do not think of him or remember him in some way. Could you please ask Erik to let me know if he’s doing ok? I think if I can just get some validation that he is ok I will be more at peace.

Thank you so much and please continue the work you are doing. You are both helping so many people.

Thank you and God bless.,

Debbie W.

(After receiving her email, I asked for her age and other important information that helps Erik locate the deceased more quickly. She responded with the following:)

Hi Elisa,

Sorry, I didn’t give you enough info. I wasn’t sure what all you would need. David was 54 and he was in the hospital in Little Rock when he passed. My age now is 53, David was 9 years older than me. I have just never gotten over the fact that he left so soon and I could not tell him goodbye. He came to me in a dream not too long after he passed. It was one of the most vivid dreams I have ever had, but only that one time. I have not “heard” from him since.
I just want to know that he is ok and that he’s happy. I would love to know that he has visited me. It’s weird, but ever since his passing anytime I see a butterfly outside I think of him. Don’t know what that’s got to do with anything but I’ve just had that feeling since he left. There really was never a connection with him and butterflies when he was here on earth…just a feeling I have. Strange?

Thank you again for what you do. I will tell Erik thanks myself. I’m sure he just loves hearing from strangers :)

Debbie W.

Channeling Transcript

Me: Okay, the next question comes from Debbie W. She’s 53 years old. She had a very close friend who was much older than her by the name of David H. He passed away from a heart attack at the age of 54 in 2001. So they’re like 9 years apart. I really don’t know the nature of they’re relationship…

Erik: That doesn’t really matter.

Me: Okay. Let’s see. He died in a hospital in Little Rock, Arkansas. Debbie has really never been able to get over not getting a chance to say goodbye. She just wants to know if David is doing okay. She wants some sort of validation that he is okay so that she can feel some peace. Oh, but also she says that she thinks about him every time she sees a butterfly. When he was alive, butterflies didn’t’ really hold any significance. I mean, there was no correlation between him and butterflies. Is that some sort of message or sign from him?

Erik: Why don’t we ask him ourselves? I actually brought him to our little party. He likes speaking for himself. He’s chuckling and saying, “So every time you see a butterfly, you think of me? Are you saying I’m flighty or something?” He keeps laughing. He’s got a great sense of humor. He finds this all very amusing.

Kim: I’m picking up on David too. He’s got a darling, cozy, warm personality and a very cute sense of humor. He’s very giving and generous.

Erik: Yeah and he’s the kind of guy who never knew a stranger. He liked everybody and wanted to be of service to people. Now, let’s talk about when he died. He’s saying he was totally shocked when he passed away. He wasn’t expecting it at all! And Debbie knows David wasn’t expecting to die, because they had talked about stuff he was going to do. He had plans! He had no fucking idea he was going to die when he did. When his soul popped out of the body he…wait. Wow! Wow! Um, Mom?

Me: Yes, Sweetie?

Erik: He’s telling me there was some, like he was supposed to get some type of medical assistance that he didn’t get, and because of that, he died. Damn! So it wasn’t his destiny to die when he did.

Me: Oh, no! Is he happy now?

Erik: Let me ask. Oh, yeah, he’s totally gotten accustomed to being in Heaven now, but he spent a long, long time really pissed over the fact that there were so many things he would have done and wanted to do that were stolen from him. He was very angry and shocked, stunned. And there was no way he could go back into his body, because it was past the point of no return. Crap, Mom, you should have been his doctor. I bet he’d still be alive!

Me: I find that funny coming from you. Remember when you were little and dropped a rock on your foot?

Erik: Maybe.

Me: You were in the garage. I checked it all out, told you it was fine and kissed it. But you started crying even louder and told me to take you to a “real doctor.”

Erik: I know. I was like three, (laughing)

Me: I thought that was so funny, Erik. So go on.

Erik: He insists that he could have been saved. But now he travels a lot, he likes to go skiing; he comes and spends time with Debbie. He comes to her in dreams sometimes, and she will know that. Any time she wants to talk to him all she has to do is say, “Hey Dave, David, Hey!”

Me: Okay.

Erik: He says he answers to any name. Funny dude. He’s talking about Debbie playing board games and when she does he loves to help her. Some people might consider that cheating! And he says he really wants to continue a relationship with her. She doesn’t really talk to him all that much, and he’d love to hear from her.

Me: Yeah! Okay, so…

Erik: Oh, and he says he’ll be there when she crosses in many, many years to come. He keeps showing himself skiing, snow skiing. That’s something he totally loves. Wait, he’s telling me something. (pause) Oh, you know what he’s gonna do? He’s gonna come to Debbie in a dream and, Mom, you know how we sometimes sit together and talk during a dream?

Me: Oh, yeah!

Erik: Well he’s going to get Debbie and take her on a ski trip. He likes to ski in Austria now. So he’s going to take her in her dream on a ski trip, and she’s gonna be fantastic. Man, he’s totally pumped about it.

Debbie’s Response

OMG Elisa…I KNEW it was not his time. I felt it from the time it happened. there was too much left here for him to do. I am so glad that he’s doing ok and is happy. I am not surprised at his response to the butterfly thing. I am sure he thought it was very corny. Oh and how he did love to ski! He went to Utah every year on a skiing trip, he had friends who lived there. I look forward to the transcript. I want to read every word of it over and over. And you can bet I will talk to him more now that I know he is listening. I am going to talk his ears off!!!

Thank you again and your beautiful Erik. What a gift he is.

Debbie W.

Your welcome Debbie. Bon Voyage, you two. Don’t break a leg!

Erik in Norway

Looking Like a True Norwegian

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  • papyapa

    Hello. My name is Melanie. ( 31 years old ) I lost my 8 year old daughter Nov. 1 2009. She went into cardiac arrest due to the H1N1. I have to know how she is. Please. My life has been flipped upside down. I miss her so much. My heart is filled with so much pain. I just want to hold her, smell her. Could Eric help me???
    Her name is Kara. She was 8. She passed away in Kingston Ontario Canada. We were there visiting family. We are from Vancouver BC. Canada.
    I need to know she is ok. I need to know what she looks like, if she hears me, sees me, if she was at the memorial I did for her. If she is watching over her little sister and brother? Could she tell Erik something that only I would know? Was she in pain when she died? Is she mad that I was not by her side? What was wrong with her heart? ( The Drs. could not figure out what she had that effected her heart when ever she got the flu ) I look forward to hearing from you… I just need some peace. Please.
    Thank you so much.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      I’ll email you directly, sweet girl.

  • Italia

    Hello This is Italia. I wrote a really in depth post this morning addressed to Dr. Medhus and Erik. In the post I made some comments and asked questions. However, now I cannot find my post. I was wondering if it was removed and if so why? I asked some really thought provoking questions in that post and it is curious it was removed? I’d like to know why it was removed or shoud I just post it again. I realized after I left to run errands that because I was reading in the archives, perhaps it wouldn’t be seen so my questions would not be answered. So I logged back on to move the post to this more recent thread. Iresponded to posts from late April, Erik’s comments on Future Time and place. What happened to my post? I put a lot of effort into that post. Kind thanks,

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Hey Italia, I did read and approve your lovely post and see it on the blog. Could you be looking in the wrong place, perhaps? I also wrote a reply as well, but I forgot to say how much I loved the Seth Materials. Try doing a search for your name or “Seth.” if you still can’t find it let me know.

  • http://WebsiteURL kelli

    I just found your blog this morning searching through my grief for anything that would help. Small world – I grew up, lived in West Houston until my 40th birthday (went to Stratford!!) now in Austin. My daughter (20 today) made a super tough decision exactly one year ago to keep an unplanned pregnancy. Of course, fast forward and we all fell madly in love with her baby son. MADLY IN LOVE! He lived with her at our home. Her best friend begged to babysit, fell asleep with him and he suffocated next to her on Mother’s Day. The grief is overwhelming me. I found lots of comfort from Erik’s words. I have had many signs from Brady, but then I start to doubt if I am imagining them. I was wondering if he ever explained if events like my grandson dying at only 4 months are planned ahead of time. Do some souls intend to live only a short time? Elisa, while I was writing this, my daughter, Callie, came in, interrupted me and Brady’s daddy, Andy (now attending Rice U. ) just gave her the outfit that Brady died in as part of her birthday present. She has wondered hundreds of times what happened to it. He had gotten it from police. I don’t think I can go in her room to see it. My heart is breaking. Please tell me how to stop crying all of the time.

    Kelli

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      My heart is breaking for you too, darling girl. I have one granddaughter who I love so much that it hurts sometimes. I have only been able to go into Erik’s room a few times. The carpet has been ripped up, of course, and we’re getting that replaced Tuesday. I don’t even want to be at home when they do because it triggers the memories. To your question, when children die at such a young age, it’s usually their destiny, from what I understand. Many have made between lives contracts with us to help us deal with loss issues. This is often the last issue we have to deal with as evolving souls, I suppose because it’s the most painful. He also may have died to help your daughter’s best friend handle guilt issues. I’m sure she’s beyond traumatized.

      So souls enter as babies and make such a huge sacrifice. But please know that Brady is home. The afterlife is our “real” home and the earthly plane is just the theater where we role play our human experiences that will help our souls evolve completely. Erik says souls in the afterlife actually grieve too–when someone in their soul group leaves to be reincarnated here. It might not be much comfort but we all have died so many times and it’s supposedly like shedding a suit of clothes. I will ask Erik if this is all true. One great book that might help is “Home With God” by Neale Donald Walsch. Please let me know how else I can help. I know what it’s like to cry and cry and wonder when it’ll ever stop.

  • bg

    Elisa why don’t you setup a PayPal account to take donations. It would help cover your costs and those that can contribute…will contribute what they can. Its super easy to setup.
    Best

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Boris, so many people have asked me to do this but I can’t. I already have selfish motives for doing this. First, helping others is what heals me. Second, helping others has become very fulfilling for Erik. It’s what’s finally making him happy. He has a true purpose for the first time and a way of paying his “karmic debt” from taking his own life. I couldn’t possibly think about sponsored ads, donations, etc. It’s the best money I’ve ever spent. Ever. Plus I love all of you. You’re my babies. Thank you for you kind suggestions. Part of the difficulty is that Kim is so booked it’s hard to get extra sessions. We’re working on that, though.

  • mstefanides

    I’m so happy that Debbie finally has her answer as to is David ok. When my grandmother died 18 years ago, I missed her by just a half hour. I was devestated. We had been extremely close for all my life, she was the only person in my life who loved me unconditionally. I was deeply hurt and a little angry that she left before I could get there. But within a few days, she let me know she was ok, and that she had to go when she did, it was her time. I was 36 at the time, with three young children. My husband traveled for work. The first night after we were home from the funeral, I awoke the next morning to a cold house (it was late November in Pennsylvania); my furnace had broken. There I was alone with my kids and no heat. I called a repair service and they sent a repairman very quickly. The broken part was easy and quite inexpensive to fix. But the repairman came upstairs and said he had to shut down the furnace and redline it–there was a hole the size of a man’s fist in the pipe leading from the furnace to the chimney. I didn’t understand the severity of it, until he explained that it meant that carbon monoxide was starting to fill my house and it was likely that my children and I would not wake up the next morning. In a flash, I felt my grandmother telling me that it was her way of apologizing for not being able to stay until I got to her. The broken part had nothing to do with the hole, but without the part breaking, no one would have seen the hole and my children and I would have died. And she knew how tight our budget was, so she made sure it was an inexpensive part that broke. In that instant, I felt total peace at her passing. She was able to say “goodbye” and “hello” to me at the same time, and spare my family a terrible tragedy. I am so happy for you Debbie, that you now have that peace with David.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      What a wonderful story! I feel like Erik must be laughing, though, because he was quite the mechanic, very good with his hands. Hard to compete with your grandmother.

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