Channeling Erik

August19th

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These next questions comes from a very worried mother who changed her original requests after a serious family crisis occurred. She was worried for good reason, though.  For me, asking such questions can be scary. I often have to hold my breath and pray as I await the response.

Because of the sensitive nature of this entry, all identifying facts have been changed.

Dana’s Question

Dear Elisa,

Thank you for your quick reply! Yes, if he is able to connect with my mother that would be amazing. I have 104 dimes I have collected from her since she died. Some of the stories are nothing short of amazing. One of the stories still makes me smile as my 16 year-old daughter was with me to see the miracle. I always knew they were from Mom, but felt no one believed me. Now they all do. I just wish she would appear to me. Your blog renewed my faith, as Mom has not been “around” as much as far as I feel. You may not know the extent to which you are helping others, but know that you and your son are really making a difference—even if you can’t “see” it. You are.

Love,

Dana, 45, Sacramento, CA

Mom’s name is Helen. She died in Rockport, TX

I’d mainly like to know why I was getting dimes/signs from her and she’s pulled back for some reason??? It’s made me sad :( I would like to know who she is with there and what she’s doing–does she miss us or is she too busy—does she watch over my daughters?

Thanks Elisa. You are on my mind a lot!! God Bless!! You are an angel on earth. I really think so.

Dana :) XOXOXO

Dana’s Addendum

Dear Elisa,

I’m so sorry to be bothering you with this. My 17 year-old daughter and I just had an argument and she told me she knows she will die from suicide when she is 20 or 25 (her words) She has had severe depression since she was young. I’m laying here in tears because I know this all will end in despair. It could be tomorrow or when she is 20.

Could I please change my Erik question?  I was asking about my mom, but I am truly worried and sick about my daughter. I am wondering if I’m going to lose her to suicide. I am feeling such a gamut of emotions. I am angry with her for holding this over my head. It’s always in the back of my mind. She’s seeing doctors and counselors, but I don’t see any changes.

Her name is Allison and she is 17 years old.

Thank you for listening. I’m just a mess right now.

Dana

Channeling Transcript

Me: Next is Dana. She’s 45 years old from Sacramento, California. She’s worried about her teenage daughter, Allison. Will she commit suicide? She had an argument with Dana and told her she knew she would take her own life sometime in her 20s.

Erik: She received this message in a dream, and it was really very clear to her that this was her destiny, that this is who she was. In fact, she will try to uphold that, she’ll attempt it again to try to fulfill that destiny.

Me (dismayed): Oh, gosh, anything she can do to prevent it?

Erik: No therapy is going to help bring her out of it.

Me: No therapy?

Erik: Yeah, no psychotherapy, medication, things like that, because when she received that message, it haunted her so bad, it’s almost like she’s in control of someone else, like when she lived before. So if we’re looking at something that can bring her out of it, it’s gonna have to be past life regression. She’s gonna have to dig up the past to give her the strength to change her path on her own. This pattern doesn’t have to play out, Mom.

Me: Okay. Now is it because it’s for her soul’s evolution to experience this kind of death like that’s a death she hasn’t experienced before or maybe it’s to teach others about loss or herself about the sanctity of life or what? Is it something like this that shouldn’t be changed because it’s part of her blueprint?

Erik: There seems to be an internal struggle with her. She’s committed suicide before, so she feels like she has to play that pattern out again and again and again. People get stuck in these patterns all the time, especially self-destructive ones. So if you look into her pasts lives, you’ll probably find out that she’s committed suicide in that same age range again and again.

Me: Okay, I’ll let Dana know that.

Erik: She’ll be okay if she gets past life regression though.

Me: Oh, that’s good. I can only imagine the eggshells her mom is walking on. Now the original question Dana has is this. Her mom’s name is Helen. She died at the age of 82. So Dana keeps seeing these dimes all the time. Are they signs from her mom?

Erik (laughing): Yes. She thinks pennies are overrated!

(I laugh)

Erik: So she’s using dimes.

Me: She says at first she got them all the time, but now it seems like her mom has pulled back a bit. She’s not getting as many.

Erik: You’re right, it’s not as frequent, but she’s not really pulling back because she’s involved in other things or because she’s not interested in making that kind of contact. She’s pulling back, because she wants Dana to focus on her life instead of walking around, waiting to be reminded that they’re there.

Me: Oh, okay! Does she watch over her daughters?

Erik: Oh, Hell, yeah, all the time. She visits and hangs around Dana and her daughters all the time. And she’s trying to help give Allison guidance to break that pattern.

Me (relived): Oh good! Good!

Erik: Her daughters are hot.

Me: Some things never change with you, Erik!

Erik: Guilty.

Me: Don’t let your girlfriend know!

(Erik laughs)

  • Dana

    A million thanks I am going to have a heart to heart talk with Her. I’m going to work on getting her to do the past life regression. Hugs, D

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      How is she doing?

  • Stanley

    Hello Dana,

    Another suggestion on top of the past life regression. I understand regular therapy might not be helpful, but what about getting your daughter hooked up with a big sister? Give her someone that she can talk to. The big sisters come and hang out, go out to movies and other girl activites (Sorry, I’m a guy, no idea what girls are into…lol). I understand the program is free. Here is the site address: http://www.bbbsi.org/. Might be something to check out. Never can have TOO MUCH help. :) I wish you and your daughter the best.

    -Stanley

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Ooo, great idea, Stanley! Maybe one of the blog members living in the same area? It’d be great to have a Big Sis who understands about spirituality, past lives, etc. What do you think, Dana?

  • Patrick

    I have been getting dimes for a good 14 or 15 years now. They appear at home and sometimes out and about, I look and there it is. Sometimes I’ll pull loose change from my pocket and miss one coin; the last one is always a dime. I suspect they come from my maternal grandfather. I feel very comfortable and safe when I find one.

  • Skoshi

    I hope more and more people who are involved in these suicide situations will find this blog. We will ask the Universe to send light, love, and resources so people can overcome these patterns or stop new patterns from forming. Everyone has their own history that we cannot know, but the love and positive energy we can direct their way are more powerful than patterns.

  • Steve

    I wanted to chime in here as I’ve done past life regressions several times. They are EXTREMELY powerful if done with an accredited hypnotist who knows what they are doing. I highly recommend this for Dana’s daughter. When you experience these lives that are causing you the troubles in this current life, you release so much crap. It’s like 3 years of conventional therapy in three hours.

    Take it from me, it’s worth it! The last time I did this I heard myself channeling my higher self and talking to the therapist, which was really very freaky but cool at the same time. The higher self is very wise. When the therapist took me past the death of that life and into the light (inter-life), that’s where the higher self came through. It was a very nice feeling. It was almost as if I was talking but using another brain and my current mind was observing. I can’t explain it.

    Anyhow – yes, past life regression is REALLY good advice here (getting goosebumps).

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Those goosebumps, I bet it’s Erik saying, “Hell, yeah, Steve!”

  • http://channelingerik Pat

    It’s funny Elisa how each time Erik gives us answers it leads to more questions…lol. I am very intrigued by the repeating pattern he talks about above.

    First, I have to commend Erik in recommending something that could really get to the heart of the matter and help someone who otherwise is beyond help. Kudos to Erik!!

    I am wondering if the help we receive in this life is often times more “productive” than what we receive on the other side. I have always heard that it is much easier to deal with problems or issues on this side than the other.

    Maybe this is an example of one. If so, then what Erik and you are doing is of great importance and could make a huge difference in people’s lives and purpose.

    I would have loved to been informed as to what Dana’s daughter’s Guardian Angels would have to say about all this. Where are they in regards to this repeating pattern? Is there no help from them here and in between lives? It seems so destructive and pointless to keep repeating.

    Wow, I could go on. I find all of this so extremely interesting. I really look forward to your posts every morning when I get up. They are always so positive and life-affirming and I always learn something.

    Maybe that is what is so vitally important about what you are doing. You are allowing us to learn so much that is vital to ours and our collective evolution. I believe that the era we are living in now is creating an increase in consciousness regarding spirituality. This is why the channelers are receiving much more detailed information than ever before possible. Now it is our responsibility to do something with the information…something to think about.

    Pat

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      I’ve heard of these repeating patterns too. I don’t know why some are drawn to play out past tragedies. My sister used to go diving off the coast of California and on one expedition, one of the divers didn’t surface. He was tangled in the kelp and died. He lived on Kelp Lane. A friend of mine who used to walk with us to grade school lost her father. He used to run every morning and was found dead on the track having had a massive heart attack. His name: Mr. Goodheart.

      Our guardian angels probably do what they can, but with free will, sometimes they have our hands full with us. Erik made such a rash decision to take his life that there was no time to intervene. As I left for lunch minutes before his death, I felt uneasy and had a headache which is uncharacteristic for me. I’m sure his angels were trying desperately to warn me.

      Oh, and Erik has said before that oftentimes issues and problems are harder to deal with in the afterlife than on the earthly plane. Therapy is also more difficult there. I wonder why? I’ll ask about that and why we repeat patterns of self-destruction.

  • Danielle Notaro

    I highly recommend reading Anne Wilson Schaef-she was a clinical Psych. who has created her own process for processing. Read Beyond Therapy, Beyond Science and Living in process. She and her associates do healing workshops throughout the year. Here’s a list of books she has written:

    Meditations for Living in Balance: Daily Solutions for People Who Do Too Much
    Living in Process: Basic Truths for Living the Path of the Soul
    Beyond Therapy, Beyond Science: A New Model For Healing the Whole Person
    Women’s Reality: An Emerging Female System in a White Male Society

    When Society Becomes an Addict
    Escape From Intimacy: Untangling the “Love” Addictions
    Codependence: Misunderstood/Mistreated
    The Addictive Organization (with D. Fassel)
    Native Wisdom for White Minds
    Meditations for Women Who Do Too Much
    Meditations for People Who (May) Worry Too Much.

    Here is the link to her website:http://www.livinginprocess.com/

  • pamie

    All of this information is so helpful. I have the same problems and fears with my 18 year old daughter. I have been discussing this subject with her and she is finally opening up to the possibility. I am going to start looking for a hypnotherapist with the hope that she will agree.

  • Candis

    This is going to sound out of left field here, but I am convinced that we should never under-estimate the vital importance of nutritional thearpy and exersize. Get those vitman D levels tested and soup up on a high quality multi and omega 3′s. Also – a lot of people suffer from gluten sensitivity that just really fogs them up mentally and mucks up thier emotions. And sugar is just killing everybody – it steals so much from people. (Elisa, if you get a chance, would you please ask Erik about this?) I cannot tell you how much my own energy, motivation and general outlook on life improved when I addressed these issues. Especially the vitiman D thing – if I don’t take it for a couple days or get a mega dose of it at the beach where I live, I literally wake up thinking negative thoughts. Think about it, vitiman D is something our ancestors got everyday and we seldom ever even see the sun! It actually can act as a kind of hormone and a lot of people are not getting any of it at all.
    Also, start moving around in a manner that is fun for you everyday. It makes a huge difference, believe me – and not just weight wise for some people, it literally “lifts your spirits” if you find a way to exersize that you enjoy. I really think that our modern lifestyles do not help us when it comes to attempting to reach our higher selves and we must be very proactive in order to overcome all of the toxic influences that we are exposed to, often without even realizing it. Don’t even get me started on pesticides and toxins.
    I would love to get Erik’s take, from his unique vantage point, on the external things on this plane that may be interfering with our ability to transcend.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Great questions. I check Vitamin D levels on all my adult patients. I’m also a big believer of Omega 3. I’ve been supplementing my family with it for the last 15 years.

  • Debbie B

    Pamie I couldn’t agree more with your thoughts about exercise and diet. After too many years I rejoined a club and now workout 5 days a week. Wow, everything changed. My mind was fuzzy and I was always tired. Now I am addicted. When I don’t workout my old sluggish self returns, yuck. The best part is my 22 year old daughter joined and we often go to classes together. She and I butt heads, alot, but the classes seem to bring us together, work out our frustrations and she really eases up. Plus we have fun together and put all of the mom/daughter crap aside. A good multi and omega are great too. I get my daily dose of Vitamin D regularly…I live in sunny Florida : )

  • Cathy

    I am absolutly fascinated by all im reading in your blog about Erik! l really don’t know where to start from, this is fascinating and feels so real! l guess l’d really love to know what my purpose is here on earth? what am i? I’m doing alot of readings on it and l thing im getting there but need guidance too. I’ve always blieved in otherly energies, powers spirituality and am convinced we are nothing but pure light! l’d deeply appreciate if Erik could help me more, or if there are things im doing wrong or missing out on!
    thank you deeply
    Cathy

  • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

    Hey Cathy! Until I begin taking Ask Erik questions again, have you tried channeling Erik, or better yet, your angels? Sometimes it’s easier to channel Erik because his humor, his voice and his cursing is easy to recognize, plus he gets all the information from your guides. You’re probably in transition and about to enter a new chapter in your destiny. These questions your have are typical for this sort of thing. If you need clips of Erik’s voice, they’re in various entries but I can email you them too. If you still have trouble, contact me: emedhus@gmail.com. I’ll ask Erik to pay you a visit if you can give me a city and your approximate age.

  • Skoshi

    I was stunned when, after having read these comments about patterns and the problem with breaking them, that the Yoga Journal e-newsletter for the day dealt with just that topic. Don’t know why I still get surprised by the serendipity! Thought it was meant that I pass this along in case anyone might have an “aha!” moment by reading it. Essentially it says whatever patterns we repeat, good or bad, we find harder and harder to break from. That’s one reason why harmful or good karma builds and builds after each life; if we commit suicide, we tend to do it again in another lifetime. It’s not punishment; it’s a way we’ve coped before so we do it again. No surprise to those of us who turn to chocolate for comfort when we’re feeling bruised! Here’s a blurb from the article.

    Be Kind, Don’t Rewind

    According to yogic philosophy, we’re born with a karmic inheritance of mental and emotional patterns—known as samskaras—through which we cycle over and over again during our lives.
    The word samskara comes from the Sanskrit sam (“complete,” or “joined together”) and kara (“action,” “cause,” or “doing”). In addition to being generalized patterns, samskaras are individual impressions, ideas, or actions; taken together, our samskaras make up our conditioning. Repeating samskaras reinforces them, creating a groove that is difficult to resist. Samskaras can be positive—imagine the selfless acts of Mother Theresa. They can also be negative, as in the self-lacerating mental patterns that underlie low self-esteem and self-destructive relationships. The negative samskaras are what hinder our positive evolution.

    But with mindfulness, right intention, and a lot of patience, you can turn your negative patterns into positives. The first step is to become aware of when you’re falling into your habits.

    The article was written by Bo Forbes (some of you know of her?). She is a psychologist and yoga teacher. Her articles in the Yoga Journal are available on line. I always find them very nourishing and thought provoking. Perhaps there’s some insight here to help Dana and/or her daughter break their patterns? Link to this article about how to break patterns:

    http://www.yogajournal.com/lifestyle/1318?utm_source=DailyInsight&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=DailyInsight

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Amazing! THe serendipity of it all is, well, I just can’t fathom how it all happens. It just reminds me of how we are a part of something so vast, so intricate, so magical, so loving and so knowing.

  • Su

    Wow! I can’t believe the synchronicity I’ve just experienced. We really are guided in weird and wonderful ways.

    Erik, Elisa thank you! I’ve been thinking about taking a course in past life regression for a while now. The lady I want to train with is running the course in Sweden, a short flight but still lots to organise – I’m in England. I took a break from thinking about all of that and came on here. Then suddenly got onto this page. The minute Erik talked about how effective past life regression is; I just knew I had to book it, needed that little push. It was great reading the comments too, especially Steve explaining how powerful past life regression for healing. So, I booked it. And guess what I found after that, the course starts on August 19th, same date as this blog! There are a few UK dates for the classes but I can’t make it.
    ** cue The Twilight Zone theme tune**

    I can’t wait, I’d love to help people this way, getting to heart of the matter is everything.

    Dana, I hope you and Allison are receiving all the love and guidance that you need to resolve this extremely sensitive issue. My thoughts are with you. Thank you for sharing this with us.

    xxx