Channeling Erik

September3rd

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Ask Erik: Bruce’s Questions

Posted in: After Death Communication, Channeling, Communication from the dead, Contact with the dead, Kim O'Neill, Loss of a sibling, Messages from the dead, Psychic medium, Sibling relationships, Struggles

These next questions are from an Archbishop who I believe is very spiritually enlightened. His mission is to find his two siblings who were given up for adoption right after birth. After reading the information below, please share your ideas on how we can help Archbishop Bruce with his mission. He seems to have tried everything.

After I gave Bruce all of the information Erik provided in my session with Kim on August 12th, it was clear that more information could prove to be valuable for his search, so I asked more questions in my session with Jamie four days later.

Bruce’s Questions

Today, July 10, is my 57th Birthday. Just six months ago, I found out that I have a full blood brother and sister that I never knew I had. My mother was forced to give them up for adoption when they were born. She saw each one at birth, and they were given to the waiting adoption couple. This causes me more pain than you can imagine.

My mother named my brother Stephen. No name was given for my sister as she was removed to quickly. I don’t know if they are alive or dead. I’ve spent money and connections through the Church to locate them and a final dead end was reached which I cannot penetrate. My brother would have been born around summertime, 1956, and my sister around 1958. Are they alive or passed on?  They were born in North New Jersey in sight of the statue of liberty.

Second equally important question:

My Grandmother Edith XXXX was died  at 92 in Oaklyn, NJ without family. Can Eric find out if she is there, why she chose not to make contact with the family, and why she de-willed everyone by name except me. Was that a message to me? She left all of her estate to a man who was using her and I assumed buried her. She changed her will five days before she died of pancreatic cancer.

+Bruce

Channeling Transcript from the Session with Kim

Me: Okie dokie, Erik. Got one from Bruce, 57 years old, living in Wilkes Barre, Pennsylvania. He just found out that he has a full blood sister and brother he never knew about. He thinks his mother named his brother Stephen, who would be around 54 now. No name was given to the sister, but she’d probably be around 52. Both were born in New Jersey somewhere within sight of the Statue of Liberty.

Erik: Stephen is alive and well. They’re going to connect and have a very good relationship. Stephen and Bruce are SO much alike. It’s like they’re twins! When they get to know each other, they’re going to be totally amazed by the similarities in their lives like when they did this, when they did that…They’re going to be really, really close. Bruce will find his sister, but there’s not going to be much of a connection there. He’ll find her by going onto Facebook and announcing what he’s trying to do.

Me: Oh, okay! Will he find Stephen that way too?

Erik: Yes, that’s how he’s going to find both of them.

Me: Okay, good!

Erik: He’ll find Stephen first, then they’ll find the sister. Neither Stephen nor Bruce will be very close to the sister. You know, we can be related to people but just not be that close, and we can feel we have nothing in common with them.

Me: Oh, sure. Now, his grandmother, Edith died at the age of 92 in Oaklyn, New Jersey. Can you find out if she’s there, Erik? And can you ask her why she chose not to make contact with the family?  Bruce also wants to know why she de-willed everyone by name except him. Was that some sort of message for him?

Erik: She had a lot of help changing her will.

Me: Okay.

Erik: By the way, Mom, I know who you have scheduled when we talk, so I can do all the necessary background work and have the answers ready for you.

Me: Aw! How sweet! That’s awesome, Erik!

Erik: Yeah, it’s not like I know everything there is to know in the whole universe.

Me: Oh, yeah, I know.

Erik: Okay. So, I just wanted you to know.

Me: Okay.

Erik: Now, Edith didn’t include Bruce because she forgot about him.

Me: Oh, no! Not sure he’s going to like hearing that!

Erik: She had help from her “paramour.” He wanted to create a will that couldn’t be challenged, so he deliberately sat down to list everyone, and Bruce just got lost in the shuffle. So Edith was not trying to send a message. He just got lost in the shuffle.

Me: Okay.

Erik: In fact, Bruce is the only one who can challenge the will, but there’s no reason to do it now cuz everything is gone. And it was what she wanted. It wasn’t done without her approval.

Channeling Transcript from the Session with Jamie

(I gave Erik and Jamie the exact same identifying questions that I did in my session with Kim four days earlier.)

Erik: Both of ‘em are alive.

Me: What about names? Do you have any names? Does Stephen have a new name, and can you tell us where they are?

Erik: There’s more connection to the brother than the sister.

Jamie: I’m getting that, too. I don’t know why there’s more connection with the brother. And Erik keeps saying Michael.

Me: Okay.

Jamie: And the last name is a hard sound like “K” like Kaymus/Caymus, Kamronz, Cameronz. There’s a nice soft sound at the end, a hard “K” sound at the beginning and either an “M” or “N” somewhere in the middle.

Me: Interesting.

Jamie: Yeah, I guess he would have a totally different name if he was adopted and everything.

Me: Yeah, sure.

Erik: The brother and sister don’t have any record of each other, and they don’t know how to trace it back.

Me: Do they know they’re adopted?

Erik: The brother does, yes, but the sister doesn’t.

Me: Oh!

Erik: They’re adopted by two different families.

Me; Is the brother looking at all?

Erik: The brother kind of looked, but he didn’t give it the good ol’ college try. But with effort, Bruce will be able to find his brother. He could hire a detective, but networking sites like Facebook and MySpace would help.

Jamie: Aren’t there websites like “looking for your siblings?”

Me: Oh, I don’t know!

Jamie: And you can track siblings down by year or state?

Me; Wow! That would be cool.

Jamie: If it doesn’t exist now, Bruce might find a way to create it and get some sponsorship so it’ll be able to sustain itself.

Me: Where do they live?

Erik: The brother still lives in that same area of New Jersey, but the sister has moved farther away.

Me: Okay, thanks Erik. I let Bruce know.

In retrospect, I supposed I could have asked so many questions that might have helped, but I had time constraints and a very long list of other questions. I’m hoping one of you will have helpful advice for Bruce so that he can unite with the rest of his family. I did find it interesting that in both sessions, Erik mentioned the stronger connection with the brother from the very beginning.

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  • Steve

    Again, I’m astounded that Kim and Jamie brought forth pretty much the same core information! It sounds like Bruce will find his siblings :)

  • Skoshi

    There’s so much more information available now with the internet than even just a few years ago. Bruce’s brother might just not have been technologically savvy.

    I can say a word as a lawyer who has done hospice work. Elisa, you might confirm some of this. When someone is dying and on meds for pain, some of those meds cause halucinations. And a LOT of people get confused when they’re dying. I don’t just mean confusion like folks get when something’s hard to understand. Knowing one has a fatal illness is VERY stressful and severe stress causes all kinds of thinking-ability issues. A Will remade in one’s last days should undergo serious scrutiny. Just because it was what his grandmother “wanted” doesn’t mean a lawyer should have drawn the Will and allowed it to be signed. She could have wanted the Will remade BECAUSE she was unduly influenced. The statement that she had a lot of “help” confirms that. And the fact that the grandmother didn’t remember him lends proof to the fact that she was NOT in her right mind. It takes about a year to wrap up most estates. If a person doesn’t challenge a Will in a year, it is often too late. The money has been distributed and a Court has officially closed the matter. Reopening it and trying to regather distributed assets…not likely.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Exactly my thoughts. I think she was an elderly woman who was exploited because of her weakened metal faculties. Maybe there’s a lesson in this scenario for some or all of us. I’m wondering if there was a spiritual contract involved.

  • Bruce

    Thank you Elisa and Eric! I appreciate it and the comments left by Steve and Skoshi. First my Grandmother: This “individual” that Eric called a “Paramour,” was exactly that. He always tried to cut her off from the family and was in fact about 40 years her junior. My Grandmother basically raised me which is why it would have been very hard to just “forget about me,” when redoing the will. Anyway, water long gone under that eternal bridge.

    As for my Brother….I just don’t know. New Jersey has one of the most restricted access policies in the country regarding adoption records and information related to the process that the individual went through. Having already paid a search firm with no luck to find him, the world of souls and Facebook is about the only things we haven’t tried. My mother is still alive and would love to see my brother and sister.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Maybe your grandmother’s mind was not right at the time. That may have made her forget. Who knows. I hope you find your siblings. Gosh, it’s so important. If you don’t, at the very least we all connect once we’re home.

  • Bruce

    Well, Elisa you would know better than I what a 92 year old mind in end stage pancreatic cancer would be like. I know it’s not a pleasant death….

  • http://avalonrisen.com Ceridwen

    This may not be helpful for Bruce, since one would need last names for this search, but it perhaps it can be of help to someone else…the Mormons are famous for having extensive church records on millions of people in the U.S., and they provide a free online search:

    http://www.ancestorhunt.com/mormon_church_records.htm

    Otherwise, for Bruce, Facebook seems the way to go since Erik suggested it through two mediums…

    We’re pulling for you, Bruce! :)

  • Skoshi

    When I worked hospice in NY, I had a woman who had bone cancer. She became very frightened one night, saying peppers were in the oven and burning and would start a fire if we didn’t get them out. The nurse said the cancer had reached her brain and was triggering experiences.

    When I worked hospice in VA, one of our patients was dying of ovarian cancer and was halucinating. I thought the cancer might have gone to her brain, but the nurse said it was the type of pain meds she was on. The woman told me she was seeing men “made out of broccoli”.

    Another woman who was on pain meds told me she could see a brick wall, and the wall was moving because it contained people made of bricks who were trapped in the walls.

    A man I worked with had end stage Alzheimers. He had been a kind, brilliant man…a dean of chemistry. He thought he was at college getting ready for a board meeting and told his nurse and me: you girls are going to get in trouble. When we asked him why, he said, you’d better get those photocopies made in time for the meeting. He didn’t recognize his wife of 37 years and gave her a black eye when she tried to help him with the toilet because he didn’t understand and was afraid of her.

    All these people had periods of lucidity (even the man who was SO no longer himself), but none of them should be making a Will.

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