Channeling Erik

July31st

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Ask Erik: Brian’s Question

Posted in: After Death Communication, Afterlife, Bereaved, Channeling, Communication from the dead, Contact with the dead, Crossing over, Death, Death of a Child, Grief, Grieving, Guardian Angel, Heaven, Kim O'Neill, Psychic medium

Before I share what information Erik provided for Brian, my last question for the channeling session, I’d like to thank you all for sending healing thoughts to my elderly mother. She survived the surgery and is back to complaining!! Yay! Also, as per Todd’s request, I’ve set up a discussion forum for you guys. Take a look at the categories and make whatever recommendations you wish. I usually leave this up to my webmaster daughter, Kristina, but she’s so busy in med school I decided to (gulp) try it myself. There are several categories, including a way for you to ask for Erik’s facilitation in bringing your loved ones across to communicate and one for you to request healing thoughts and prayers from all of us.

Now for Brian, a loving father who tragically lost his dear son, Justin.

Brian’s Question

Hi, I have a question I hope Erik can help us with. Our son Brian “Justin” passed away in his sleep in Atlanta. . He was only 27 years old. The Medical Examiner has still not determined a cause of death…My wife and I are crushed by our loss. We would like to know for starters, what happened, what took his life? Is he in a good place, has he crossed over….and does he have any messages for us and lastly…Is it possible for us to learn to communicate with him ourselves…Thank you very much…Brian

Channeling Transcript

Me: This next question is very difficult for me, Erik. I can feel this family’s pain as if it’s my own.

Erik: Yeah, I know. I know the question already.

Me: Well, I’ll ask it anyway to be sure. Brian is a 50 year-old man in Atlanta who recently lost a son, Justin. He was only 27 when he died. Brian and his wife are obviously crushed. They want to know what happened and how he is?

Erik: Happened recently, right?

Me: Yeah, May 29th, so their grief is very fresh.

Kim: Give me a sec, Elisa. Erik is talking to Justin now.

Me: Oh, okay!

Erik: He’s saying it was his destiny to die when he did, but hang on, I’m still getting some stuff from him.

Me: Okay.

(Pause for several seconds)

Erik: I’m hearing it was not…Hang on, I’m still listening. All the guardian angels that were working with Justin at the time are here telling me stuff too. It’s kind of crazy here. Everyone’s talking.

Me: Take your time.

Erik: Well, he died in his sleep. I’m hearing natural causes.

Kim: How about we just talk to Justin himself?

Erik: That’s a good idea. Here he is. Here he is.

Kim: Cute guy, beautiful smile! He’s showing himself to me with blue eyes. I don’t know if he had blue eyes when he was here, but that’s what he’s showing me now. How did you pass, Justin? What would have been your cause of death?

Justin: It wasn’t a murder. It was natural causes. Natural causes. . It wasn’t a suicide. Definitely not a suicide! And it wasn’t an accident either. Natural causes.

Kim: And what…

Justin: Brian aneurysm. Brain aneurysm. And I had no clue at all this was going to happen.

Me: How are you? Are you happy there, Justin?

Justin (rolling his eyes): Weeellll, after I discovered I was stuck here. I’m trying to make the best of it. I NEVER would have left my mom and dad without saying goodbye. I NEVER would have left them; NEVER would have killed myself! I was upset at the thought that my parents thought it might have been a suicide, because I had everything to live for. Was my life as happy as I wanted it to be? Well, no! But I had no clue this was coming! Imagine my shock when my soul left the body and I looked down at myself, and there was NO WAY. Even if a physician like you, Elisa, had been right there with me, you couldn’t have brought me back. It busted in my brain, I was gone, that was it. Totally painless. No pain at all. And then I remembered it was my destiny, but on an emotional level, I had plans! I had plans! It was clearly natural causes. If I were older, the autopsy would have been done in a different way. They would have been looking for things they don’t usually look for in a young guy like me. It wasn’t found, because it wasn’t looked for.

Me: Any messages for the family?

Justin: I’m looking for someone; I’m looking for a medium who is going to give information directly to my parents from me, and it’s not going to be Kim. And it’s not going to be you, Elisa.

Me: Okay.

Kim: Justin, what about Erik?

Justin: No, no no. It’s going to be someone in the physical. I’m looking for someone who lives around where they live. I haven’t found anyone yet, but I’ve just been thinking about it, and I think it’s a good idea.

Me: Okay, good! That’ll make them so happy to hear from you, Justin. And Erik, maybe you can buddy up with Justin and help him.

Kim: Wait, Erik is talking to Justin right now.

Erik (teasing): You fucking moron, use her! Use Kim!

(Ever the diplomat.)

Justin (looking at Kim): Well, uh, I don’t know. I don’t really know her. I don’t know anything about her.

Erik: Well you don’t know anything about the other ones either! Look, we’re gonna talk.

Kim laughs.

Erik: Bye Mom!!

Me (in my annoying “loving mother” voice): Bye Baby, I love you!

Erik: Bye Mom. See ya!

Me: Okay, see you later!

The next CD should come in today. Apparently the post office sent it back to Kim, but she resent it yesterday. Thanks for letting me share. I send healing thoughts of love to Brian and his family and hope you all do the same.

  • Donna B

    Big big smile! That was cute, the exchange between Erik and Justin. That’s the way I wish I could die, because to me it seems the most painless. I know he was so young and kids should not go before parents, but that should really give his parents some comfort. I just love it when you post because it just continues to strengthen my new found beliefs. You are so giving Elisa, I still can’t believe how amazing you are. Wish I lived in Houston and could meet you.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      I wish you were here too, Donna. One day, we’ll meet. Promise!

  • Melanie

    What a great blog. Makes me smile when ever I get the email! Thank you for all that you and Erik do Elisa. I would love to be able to meet you also. Not too many parents have the loss of their kids in common, it is amazing how much peace you can get from another Mother who has been through the same grief. To meet in person would just expand that sense of support. Maybe one day!
    xox
    xox

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Definitely some day!!!! What city are you in?

  • taccj9903

    I tried to get on the blog but couldn’t figure out how to post. Anyone have any idea how to start a new blog in the discussion forum?

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      You couldn’t post on the forum? Did you log in? I’ll try to get Kristina to figure this out for us. She’s on call at the hospital all day and night. Ugh, better her than me!

  • http://calledhome.wordpress.com Sarah

    Just want to say thank you Elisa – for all the LOVE :)

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Ah ha! Here it is! I edited out your last name. Thanks for all the love back, baby girl.

  • http://calledhome.wordpress.com sarah

    (oh and if you do publish my previous comment, would you mind taking out my last name…don’t know how it got in there)
    Thank you, again :)

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Sure Sweetie. I usually eliminate all last names. Under which post is the comment?

  • Skoshi

    How wonderful that you have allowed yourselves to be resourses to berieved parents and their family members at the “truck stop”, Elisa and Erik!

    I’ve heard of a lot of people in their 20s lately who have had strokes and died or have not passed and are dealing with considerable brain damage. Because I’ve died so many times and not passed and have had so many accidents with clearly miraculous “saves”, I’m convinced that when we have scheduled an exit, that’s when it will happen, and not before or later. Some who read the blog might have had similar experiences to this: In one of my close calls, I was alone in a new truck that went off a mountain in the Adirondacks in a heavy, wet snow storm. The truck had gone OVER the guard rail. I took my hands off the steering wheel and calmly said, “it’s in your hands” and sat back to watch. The next thing I knew, I was back on the highway, back over the guard rail, stopped on the shoulder, facing in the right direction. The truck was totaled. I only had slight bruising where my seat belt went across my chest. There’s no cell phone reception in those mountains. My cell phone worked and I called for help. Before I could even do that, TWO trucks arrived with 2 men who are volunteer EMTs. Their cell phones wouldn’t get reception. A young policeman arrived who was very kind and didn’t ticket me. He let me sit in the police car to stay warm while the tow truck driver arrived. The tow truck driver took me to his adult daughter, who found me a room for the night. Friends drove through the barely plowed mountain roads the next day to pick me up.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      OMG, Skoshi! How many miracles can one story have? Your guardian angels did their job well. I’m glad, because the world is a better place with you in it.

  • Nate

    Agreed with Donna – definitely a funny exchange b/w Erik and Justin. Always good to smile when reading these :)

    I wonder if that’s a completely disorientating way to pass. That is, you go to sleep and then all of the sudden you are out of your body…totally unprepared, totally not expecting or prepared. I wonder if at first it’s sort of a confusion or ‘am I dreaming’ type situation, or if the knowing is sort of immediate.

    Was it ever verified if he had blue eyes? I think it would be so cool to verify or get validation on some of the unknowns (i.e. things that you or Kim would have never have known but the departed one shared).

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      I bet it is disorienting at first! From what I hear, there are spiritual beings that help people who are disoriented after they die, especially is the death is sudden, traumatic, unexpected AND if they have a conflicting belief system. For instance, if they’ve been raised to believe there is no life after death but find they’re still conscious after death, or if they believe in Hell and think they should be there, their thoughts after passing will create those realities: perhaps in the first example they’d be in pitch darkness, perhaps in the second, they’re create pictures of what they assumed Hell would be like. In the case of Justin, he probably was greeted by a deceased family member or pet. this would have oriented him. He passed only very recently and I guess it takes time to adjust. Not sure if he had blue eyes. I know he showed himself with blue eyes, but that doesn’t necessarily mean he had them this lifetime.

  • Suzy

    Elisa, You two are amazing!
    I’m still so inspired and awed by what you’re doing!

    When do you think the Ask Erik option may return? :) I’m dying to have a mystery or two clarified, myself. (I’ll bet my husband would also love to hear some info about his own family, though he hasn’t admitted that yet.)

    I also wanted to mention that earlier you had suggested you had been using the blog as a kind of escape. I’m not you, of course, so don’t have your insight or know your motivations as well as you do, but it seemed to me that what you were doing was channeling (no pun intended) your energy and grief in such a way as to make it positive and sharing that with others. Just my opinion, looking in from the outside. :)

    Hugs!

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Hey Suzy! The Ask Erik button might be up in a couple of months. I did create an Ask Erik category in the discussion forum. This is a way for people to ask Erik for facilitation in getting loved ones to come across to them in dreams, etc. If you need information soon, and Kim’s charges are too steep for you, I’d look into Jeannie Barnes. She charges $80 and hour and I think she’s really good. Even if when the Ask Erik button goes up, I won’t be able to take as many questions as before, because there are many questions I have for Erik for the purposes of the book. Hugs back, Sweetie!

  • danielle n.

    I just did that and this is what I am basically seeing:

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    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Did you post a new topic? If so, in which category/forum?

  • danielle n.

    I wish I knew how to communicate what I see with you. I am not good at this stuff either. There is nowhere that I see to post a topic. I see zero topic’s. When I log on I see exactly what you are looking at in my above post.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Ugh, I know! It’s so irritating! I hope Kristina can figure it out!!

  • http://calledhome.wordpress.com/ Sarah

    Hey Elisa!
    Last night I was reading your site…and I posted my little comment above…and then today i was driving home (in santa monica, ca) and I was right behind a car whose license plate holder said: “Happiness is being……..Eriks Mommy.
    I thought it had to be sign of sorts so, I just wanted to share:)

    Also- i just finished reading a book about a now passed Buddhist master named Dipa Ma. While she was alive, she lost two of her children, then her husband, and became gravely ill. It was amidst her grief that she began meditating and then became enlightened/awakened. From then on she was a powerful, all loving teacher.

    After she lost her children she began to “treat every person as if they were her child.” You remind me of her and of this precept.
    If you ever get a chance to read about her, it’s a very healing experience. I now call Dipa Ma in during my meditation practice and I feel her light and love. She helps with my continued healing and in shifting my consciousness to help me connect most fully to my beloved john on the other side.
    Wishing you lots of light and love- mother to all.
    Sarah

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Wow, Sarah. You’re absolutely right. It’s like I feel so maternally nurturing and protective of you guys. It fills me with love, and that fills me with hope. Love you, Baby Girl! Sending a big hug to you and to John on the other side as well.

  • alma

    Elisa,
    I just wanted to let you know that Eriks discription of Justin brought me a measure of peace on how spot on it was, and to know that he has and will retain his personality even though he is no longer on this plane of existence,,he did have a beautiful smile that shined through ..btw.he had chameleon eyes that chose to be blue or green depending on what the wore… the idea that he is wanting to find someone to speak through that is in atlanta is really sticking to me..I recently met up with a close friend of mine that I believe is capable of channeling herself and everytime Im w. her I get the sensation that Justin is speaking to me. Its a great feeling, and she seems to think that the person Justins trying to talk through will find me not the other way around. soo..been keeping my self open to possiblities also hoping to lean how to channel myself, but finding it hard to let go of earthly preconceived notions.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      I know what you mean, Alma. I find it so hard to channel. Sometimes I can’t separate my own thoughts from Erik. But then there are times when I can hear his voice come through in my head. It’s hard to lock onto it, because I get excited and distracted. It’s like using the fine tuning knob on a radio or microscope. I know Brian mentioned what a skeptic he’s been and I told him I came from that same place. I needed science behind it. Have you read Your Eternal Self by Dr. Hogan? It’s really comforting. Justin is around you all the time. I told Erik to bring him forward to you, so maybe every night you can remind him before you go to sleep. I also want to apologize for the bad language Erik used with Justin. I promise he didn’t get that from me! He was just saying it in an endearing way, though. I hope they become close friends.

      Just know that I am here for you. You are part of my family now. I love you dearly.

  • Brian

    Thank you again, Eliza & Erik…Your exchange with my only Son has brought comfort to an unbelievably painful household as of late..Justin indeed had bright blue eyes, and blonde hair.
    Here’s a little side note for the skeptics out there…(and trust me, I have never met a bigger skeptic than myself)..My wife contacted a Psychic in the area we live named Sharon Johns…She had seen her work with police locally, and on some TV programs…My wife’s channeling session revealed to us a carbon copy of what Erik said….Cause of death was exactly the same..circumstances, and messages to us were exactly the same, yet neither Elisa, nor Sharon Johns knew of any contact we had with the other…Sort of made a firm believer out of it for me…
    That being said, I still have some very down days about all of this…and have still yet been able to connect with Justin myself…….Hug the kids you have folks….because when their gone, you would give everything you have…. for 5 more minutes…Thanks again Elisa & Erik Love Brian

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Oh, Brian. Sweet Brian. I wish I could take some of your pain away. It does give us all comfort that he’s around, alive in some other dimension. It took me several months before I could contact Erik myself, so in time it WILL happen. It’s just that the grief gets in the way. I know what you mean about skepticism. I still struggle with it because if I find out something that shakes my new and fragile beliefs, it’s like losing my son again. I’m grateful for stories like your, I’m grateful that there is science backing my new beliefs, and I’m grateful for your friendship. We’ll get through this together. I’m asking Erik again to bring Justin to you. Could you please remind him every night before you go to bed?

      I sense that you are an amazing father. So loving.

      Love to you and your wife. Sending a warm hug to Justin too.

  • alma

    thank you elisa, i can honestly say this IS a place were i do feel the love. its a great joy to be able to speak of our loved ones without feeling the crushing finality of their absence…no i havnt read the book you mentioned but i will now add it to the list of books i intend to read..im currently reading “Human Personality and Its Survival of Bodily Death” by F.W.H Myers…my biggest fear as it was,..that a persons consciousness does not survive death. a fear that no longer exists.in large part to my reaffirmed faith, and also thanks to people like you and your son who are nice enough to share :)

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      That sounds like an awesome book! I love the fact that personality seems to survive along with consciousness. After all, that’s what makes us “us.” Big hug!

  • alma

    lol i know right? *hug back* also wanted to let you know that when you said justin was around me all the time i heaved a sigh of relief..now i know im not crazy.lol i sense him so much especially when im in my car alone..before any feeling i get this soft chill down my spine followed by a feeling of peace ..and then sadness…before it goes back to a feeling of peace..and so i will pray and ask erik to please let justin know its ok to visit me in dreams if he needs to talk, and maybe soon i will also be able to channel and speak directly w. him :)

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