Channeling Erik

July26th

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Ask Erik: Amber’s Question

Posted in: After Death Communication, Afterlife, Bereaved, Channeling, Communication from the dead, Contact with the dead, Dreams, Grief, Grieving, Kim O'Neill, Love, Messages from the dead, Past lives, Psychic medium, Spiritual presence, Struggles, The Physics of Consciousness, The Physics of Heaven, The Physics of Thought, Visitation

Amber’s Question

Note: I’m using her screen name rather than her real one. When providing Kim and Erik with the information, however, I use her real name.

I recently had an experience with a medium that brought up more questions than answers. A dear friend of mine died five years ago of an “accidental overdose”. He suffered from depression, migraines and drug and alcohol addiction. The medium I saw told me that my friend is with me and has not gone into the light or moved toward a higher plane. He is clinging to me and living through me because I’m doing things he wanted to do. He also feels very drawn to his mother’s pain and anger. She says he needs to go to rehab, but he refuses to “own” his actions. He’s overwhelmed by confusion anger and guilt. She says he didn’t want her to tell me this information about him and he is angry at her for telling me where he is.  My question is…how can I help him?  Tim was very stubborn while on earth and it seems like wherever he is that resistance has continued. I’ve developed a close friendship with his mother and I’m trying to help her as well. I live in Carolina Shores, NC. I’m in my early forties. Tim was 30 years old at the time of his death. He lived in Wilmington, NC.

Thank you,

Amber

Channeling Transcript

Me: Okay, the next question comes from Amber. She lives in Carolina Shores, NC and is in her early forties. She had a dear friend die five years ago. His name is Tim. He’s about 30 and lived in Wilmington, NC. She went to a medium who told her he is still stuck here with her and has not moved on to a higher plane.

Kim (sighing in frustration): Oh, gosh.

Me: And the medium said he’s confused, angry, refusing to go to rehab. Also, she said that Tim is mad at her (the medium) for divulging the information like where he is. Tim also apparently has unresolved issues with his mom. Amber wants to know how she can help him.

Kim (sighing again): Okay. (pause) Okay.

Me (laughing at her frustration with the medium’s message): So where do you begin with that one?! How are we going to untangle this mess?  She needs to charge her with malpractice, I guess?

Kim (chuckling): You, Elisa, are reading my mind. You know, if you go to fifty different mediums, you’re going to get fifty different messages.

Me: Oh, yeah, I’m sure!

Kim: Okay, first of all, it would be a Jim Dandy if Amber would do her own medium work. Just a thought.

Me: Okay.

Kim: There are mediums on every street corner, but if she’s going to go to a medium, she need to look into their experience and background. Now, in regard to Tim…

Erik: Tim is telling me it was destined to die the way he did. That was destiny. His soul popped out of his body and he found himself here pretty quickly. Everybody has a different experience in their transition back here just like their birth there on the earthly plane.

Me: Oh yeah, sure! That makes complete sense.

Erik: Okay so he came back here and he hung out for a while. That’s the way Tim puts it. Tim lies to be involved in all kinds of activities at the same time; he likes to juggle all sorts of balls in the air at one time. Then he’ll have periods where he’s just languishing. So he’ll be really, really, really busy with activities he creates, and then he’ll kick back and be a couch potato for a while. That’s what Tim is telling me. He’s saying that he, like every other soul, comes back here to the afterlife, and goes back to the earthly plane if…they…want…too.

Me: so no one gets stuck?

Erik: Exactly.

Kim: And we’re all entitled to believe different things. I mean, for how many centuries did we believe the world was flat?

Erik: Okay, so he spends time here, and, he wants Amber to know that, like every other soul, when his soul popped out of the body, he let go of all his earthly issues, all his shit. So now we’re talking to his pure spirit.

Kim: I’m glad we’re talking about Tim and Amber, He wants Amber to know that in Heaven, he likes to go bowling, he likes to fish, he likes to paint and draw. Ooo, he’s real artistic! He’s very, very bright! He’s got a motorcycle. He also has a car, he’s got a boat. He loves to drive very, very fast, he loves to do that. He loves to go off on road trips.

Erik: And Mom, Tim says it was an accident. This wasn’t meant to be a suicide. He knew though, he’s telling me, there were a couple of times there when he woke up and he wasn’t expecting to wake up. He had a sense that…when he was drinking and taking drugs…that he was going to overdose, and he thought, “Oh, I hope I’m not going to…I hope I didn’t; take too much,” and he would just go into a stupor. He’d wake up and feel like crap, but he was taking in huge amounts of drugs and alcohol, and he was doing this every single day! Every single day he had chemicals in his system. And he had big issues with his mom that he never got resolved and he says, “Well, next time around.” He has no ill will toward her at all. None. Or anyone else. He calls her G***** (a nickname that is her real name with the last two letters omitted.) He says he comes and visits her. And he says, “Hey, hey, anyone who wants to talk to me can talk to me!”

Kim: Yeah, he’s touching upon what the other medium said, “Oh, he’s really mad at me.” If a spiritual being does not want to relay certain information, the medium would have no way of knowing it. You see?

Me: Oh, yeah, of course!

Erik: So he says he’ll be glad to talk to anybody. And certainly he talks to Amber. He’s come to Amber in dreams. He spends some time around her. Not a lot, but some. He’s afraid if he spends a lot of time around her, he’s going to distract her and make her feel bad. Now he has big issues with his mom; he had those a long time before he died.

Me: Yeah, yeah.

Erik: He says he and his mom have been together before but they were married in other lifetimes. So he says, “In this lifetime, I don’t know what was worse, being married to her or having her as a mom. I, I don’t know. With the issues the two of us had…” He’s not criticizing his mom; he’s just observing the struggle both of them had. So he wants Amber to know that any time she wants to talk to him, just ask for him. He’ll be right there with her. She’ll know it’s him because she knows his energy. And he says if she’s going to go to a medium, fine, but she should ask the medium—oh, that’s a really good idea, Tim! He’s saying she needs to ask the medium, “What are your philosophies. Real quick, tell me what they are,” and if the say things like, “Well, there’s gonna be a curse,” or “Well, there could be…” There are definite red flags to watch out for.

Me: Okay, great. Thanks Erik. Now for the next question…

Kim: Oh, Tim wants to say one more thing, just one more thing. He wants to tell Amber he loves her and he says that Amber was like a mom slash big sister for him.

Me: Okay.

Kim: He wants to thank her for everything she’s done for him and continues to do. And anytime she wants to talk, he’ll be right there. Now he would like to be of service to her. He says he did so much moaning and pissing and whining to her when he was here, he says, “I did, I did!” He would like to be of service to her now, any time she wants to talk, vent, he’ll be right there for her. He says he’s going to pick her up and they’re going to take a ride on his motorcycle and she’s have a dream about that. His “bike,” he calls it.

Be sure you wear your helmet, Amber!

  • buddyboy

    I liked what Eric said about talking with the pure spirit and that all the earthly shit is not involved.

  • Todd

    Being married in one life time and being child/parent in another seems strange to me. I guess I will never understand the idea of past lives.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Sure you will Todd! :-)

  • Jahmaiah

    Yep Todd and Elisa, the record came to a screaching halt when I read that, I think that I would prefer if that never happens to me. I know that each time we are here, we are here to progress our spiritual being, maybe there was some reason for them to know each other in both those capacities, its making my brain hurt, I dont want to throw a “yuck” at it, but that is where my body is leaning, my apologies. maybe Kim can quickly expound on how this could happen

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      I think different types of relationships offer different learning experiences. Sometimes we’re a parent, sometimes we’re a friend, sometimes we’re male, sometimes we’re female, sometimes we’re gay, sometimes we’re straight, you know. It’s “yucky” in the context of one life but not so much in the scheme of all the centuries we’ve been around. A soul is a soul, after all.

  • Jahmaiah

    Ok, I understand, a soul is a soul, male/female, mother/daughter happens on the earthly plane. Thanks for clarifying that

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Well, that’s just my opinion Jahmaiah. We certainly want to open it up to the floor because there are plenty of readers who are more enlightened than me! What’s your opinion?

  • Jahmaiah

    God gave us veils for a reason, if we knew everything, our heads would explode, God is gracious enough to allow us to learn and grow. I feel like a completely different person from a year ago, i feel alive, I feel as if anything is possible. humanity is walking around in a fog, brave souls such as yourself are leading the way. I like many others suffered from depression,I didn’t understand why I was here, or what I was supposed to be doing. I still had my spirituality, but i ached for answers. It’s been painful, but now i feel free, in awe of the world and its inhabitants, and humbled by the universe. I’m no longer waiting on anything, I’m doing and enjoying, better late than never!!!!

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      You’re pretty amazing, Girl!

  • Danielle Notaro

    Wow Jahmaiah that feels so good to hear! Even though I have been on this path for decades it’s been a struggle all the way. My inner life expanded beautifully when I was faithful to taking on my challenges. It’s the outer that has been so difficult and I am in dire straights now. Please keep me in mind, Elisa.

    As far as my understanding goes the past the present and the future are all flowing into one another and we are living parallel lives as we speak. Our ego’s are structured the way they are to enable us to focus on the lifetime we are experiencing now because it is THIS particular lifetime that is most important in our over all experience. Sometimes, our other lives bleed into this one. For instance, a channeler once said I had a lifetime in Greece with my present parents. I was female then too. I had all the privileges of males & the only thing they denied me was a lover/mate. When I got this reading I didn’t quite know how to relate to it. My parents never denied me seeking or recieving love. They gave me a very very hard time when I first came out- that was 40 years ago. Eventually, they came around to being hospitable and even welcoming to my female lovers. Though my mom would probably love for me to end up with a guy. She has said,”at your age does it matter?” It’s very weird. I always had companions, friends was able to find and be found by friends and lovers. I have been in a major drought for a long long time. But when I received that reading that was not the case. My parents were somewhat lax about my getting an education.

    I have always been curious. Always loved life so much and had a lot of love to give. I’ve done theater and writing forever. In that questI have been stretching, playing, exercising, questioning,and healing identity. And so a large part of me accepts, realizes and is open to exploring the possibilities of “reality”. Love xo

  • Todd

    Does anyone know when the soul is actually created? I’ve been spinning my head off trying to comprehend the idea of past lives. For example, if my soul has been around for some time coming back to the earth plane to be someone different each time then who am I, really?

    Imagine if my soul has been around for a few thousand years then it is possible I’ve experienced many different physical bodies. For all I know I could have been a horrible person in a past life time. I guess I don’t understand the purpose if we don’t remember who we were.

    The point I’m trying to make is that I love my children because I am their father but the idea of past lives diminishes that for me because I only fathered their physical body, their soul is someone completely different, it is who they really are. Hope that explains how I feel.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Whoa, Todd! My head is going to explode and it’s all your fault! You sure make my brain work overtime! My feeling (which should be taken with a grain of salt,) is that some of us are more evolved than others, but this is not based on how long our soul has been around. I think it has more to do with how many incarnations we’ve been through. Some souls don’t incarnate at all because it’s so friggin’ hard. Some are lazy and only work on their issues with occasion incarnations or have easy lives where a lot of coasting is involved. Others get it all over with and crank out one hard life after another to get through it all. Just like some humans are more ambitious than others, I guess.

      I think we forget because to remember every past life would be a distraction making it difficult to focus on the purpose and lesson for this life. Why do we have to have the human experience to evolve? Why can’t we just learn it all in the afterlife? I have no idea. Maybe it’s like this. We can read books about how to fly an airplane and now all about it conceptually, but we have to get behind the controls to really know it experientially.

      As for your feelings as a father, of course you create their physical bodies, but your kids are probably part of your soul group too. You probably have an agreement with them formed between lives so that you can help them grow, they can help you grow, or both. What kind of dedication, steeped in trials and tribulations, could be more loving and intimate? You have probably parented your children many times. You’ve probably been their best friends, their siblings, their offspring. Just the love spanning so many lifetimes and centuries makes the relationship with them that much deeper, that much stronger, that much more meaningful.

      I have to say these words feel channeled. Usually, when what I say makes me sound smarter than I am, it is channeled!

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Oh, and Todd, one thing I’ve wondered since I was a little kid: Does there have to be a beginning and an end? Maybe since our (incarnate) lives are linear (we are born and we die) we automatically think everything has a beginning and an end. Maybe we’ve always been here and always will. I don’t know, of course, but it’s fun to think outside the box.

  • Todd

    Whoa, now my head is going to explode.

  • Shawna

    Whoa-love this one. So thought provoking! Love that you are getting channeled info Elisa. Even though I think you do know that without it being channeled but its good that they give us these reminders. ;) Reminders from home. Do you get those Lightworker e-mails that are channled from Espavo-the group? http://www.lightworker.com/
    They are pretty interesting.
    Just on the thought about when the soul is created and something else that made me think about that. This is also another thought provoking read.
    http://www.livingwithsoul.com/life-on-the-soul-plane.htm
    As you work and play in this hologram we call reality, it’s vital to remember the three Ws:
    1. Who you really are. A vast spiritual being squeezing into a tiny bio-suit.
    2. What the game is really about. The Creator learning everything about itself and growing in the process.
    3. Why you’re really here. As a Creator probe who begins its existence in the highest dimensions and projects down through them to explore on behalf of the Creator. For most, this involves learning, but a few million of us are here as a “transition team” to usher in a dramatic upsurge in the consciousness of humanity.

    Because you’re reading this book, you are probably part of that transition team, so if you’re not yet awake to that, “Wake up … the time is now. And remember your three Ws.”
    “Life on the Soul Plane” is excerpted from “Living with Soul” by Tony Stubbs.

    Sorry I haven’t been too active here lately. I’ve been working on some drama going on in my life and how to release that and shine some love & light where there is darkness. Even though I know we have to have some darkness as the yin-yang balance. Love the energy that I get from here though.
    Danielle-sorry I haven’t been on myspace…my job has blocked that site (blah) and I haven’t been on the computer much at home lately-just enough to kind of keep up with e-mails. I’m really behind on those.
    Love the energy I get from this site and from everyone here! Ya’ll are a great bunch of souls!
    Love & Light,
    Shawna

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      I love those big 3s. So true! And we love it when you check in shawna. Sometimes we all get busy!

  • Shawna

    Really could relate this. Maybe ya’ll can too.
    http://www.livingwithsoul.com/being-an-old-soul.htm

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