Channeling Erik

July21st

87 Comments

Short post today. A few of the blog members chose to sling personal attacks at me in response to yesterday’s transcription. I will not have that. It’ fine to disagree, but to use personal insults and groundless assumptions is mean-spirited. You must choose love over fear. All discussions and disagreements can be made in love. The crazy thing about this is that we are closer in agreement than you think! I suggest you re-read the post before you react without thinking.

I’ve NEVER blocked users before, but, for those who continue to hurl criticism and labels my way despite this firm warning, I will. Period.

On the lighter side, please enjoy this. You will laugh. Guaranteed. Thanks, Shawna, for sending me this!

http://www.wimp.com/disappearingprank/

 

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  • conradg

    Candis,

    Just curious, but how am I a defender of victim consciousness? That is of course the very thing I’m criticizing in Elisa’s reaction to my criticism.

    Also, if you see me as a defender of victim consciousness, how is it that you don’t see Elisa as of the same cloth? She has taken great pains to portray herself as the victim of my “insults” and “attacks”, in order to justify her own reactions. Why see only one of us as afflicted by “VD”?

    I kind of know what to expect from you, but be clear, I don’t flinch in the face of criticism, and I don’t feel myself to be the victim here at all. I’ve long since abandoned the false notion that criticism of me is a form of attack. Hopefully, it will be useful criticism, rather than just accusing me of “sucking the life out of others”. But even if not, fine, go ahead and give me your best shot.

  • epeavey

    Hello there!

    Just wanted to quickly say that I’m sorry people misread your political viewpoint. After reading it…I completely agree with you Elisa. =) As one other blog member stated many of these children born into poverty, almost have no choice. It is in their DNA…a vicious cycle. We can change our DNA through many energetic ways, so let’s all learn as many as we can and help these people, which will lead to raising of their level of consciousness and a more peaceful, equal world. There is PLENTY of wealth for everyone…the sky is the limit!

    Sending you peace and love Elisa!!

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Exactly, epeavy. Scarcity, like separation, is an illusion.

  • Donna

    Elisa, I’d love that! It would be so great to chat with you alone :)
    What a great sister. My sister from SDak is here visiting and it is so fun to take her around. She’s 9 years older than me with no kids so I think all the activity is wearing her out! Ha
    Get well and let me know if/when you come back to LA. Donna

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      I land the 1st and leave the 5th!

  • Mari

    Wow, I read and re-read the previous post’s comments and those particularly from conrad and while they may have had heated and emotionally charged responses I must say I was so sadly dissapointed that the F*bomb was so quickly dropped by you Elisa. Despite this person vehemently disagreeing with you, I would have thought that the peace and love with which you received the messages from Erik would have given enough strength to not stoop to full emotionally driven responses. Like Erik said, things just ARE. My dear husband late Kyle has been helping me to be more attuned to the higher consciousness and being more aware when the hair on the back of my ” spiritual neck” is raised so that I can step back and ask why did this soul cross my path? What lesson am I to learn? Before I jump to my usual automatic human response filled with fear and anger. Hoping to see a peaceful resolution.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      Hey, you guys need to stop thinking I’m perfect. Until you’re in my shoes, been through what I’ve been through only to be called a bigot, you are really in no place to judge. Remember I’m human and I have feelings, feelings that, since Erik’s death, have become more vulnerable and raw. So what you’re doing here, Mari, is judging while I’m only trying to protect my feelings. Should I be so strong that I laugh and turn the other cheek and ignore the insults hurled my way? Sure. And one day or one life I hope to be. But until then, I hate to think I might have so many fair weather friends just because I “so quickly dropped the F*bomb” once. Look at how judgmental YOUR words are before you attack me: “Stoop”, “Sadly disappointed”, I mean, c’mon.

  • Mari

    I can completely understand the feelings becoming more vulnerable and raw, more than I want to. I guess things get a bit fuzzy as far as when a more public platform comes into play. I’m not trying to judge you. Elisa. Judgement, justice, and all of those things are a human condition. Like your Erik said and what I am also feeling from my Kyle is that Things just Are. There is no evil or good. Energy is just energy. It is the ego or the flesh part of the human consciousness that has this need to be justified or see judgement. I am honestly not trying to push judgment on you. I guess what I was trying to say is that knowing that you are on a more public platform as you navigate through this difficult and often dark journey of grief, there must come some awareness that there will be opposition to what messages you are receiving from Erik and with that knowledge have some preparedness to ignore or not engage with those who wish to tamper with your energy and light. Wounded people wound others. I don’t expect you to laugh and turn the other cheek at all, but just knowing the risks involved in allowing anyone and everyone access to your most precious and sensitive dialogues with Erik, perhaps not be afraid to ignore or flat out delete posts that lower vibrational energies and bring on feelings that might hinder the wonderful new relationship you are creating with Erik.
    My post was an attempt to calmly and with love express how I felt the comments were just a vicious dead end cycle that was doing nothing but bringing you more pain.
    My sincerest apologies that you now see me as attacking you as well.

    • http://drmedhus.com Elisa

      I never filter comments. But in the case of Conradg, I have blocked him permanently for the greater good. It’s a sad day for me. And looking at my files, this entire political question was posed by a blog member. That said, it had a divine place in the blog. It was meant to be, as was the heated debate, the lessons and the pain. I hope we all learn from it. Know that I don’t censor without good cause and I wish Conrad all the love and light in the world.

  • Joanne

    Hi everyone, None of us is perfect, we all have bad days and we all hope for better ones. Isn’t it time this all stopped?
    I don’t think it serves any purpose to continue the dialogue of right/wrong, you said /I said. I for one am upset that our CE family has descended into this. We may be hurt, angry, confused, insulted even, but we need to let it go. If we need to reflect on how this happened, we can all do so by examining our words, actions, and most importantly our thoughts, those voiced and unspoken, because good or bad, we are responsible for them and they go out into the universe. But we don’t need to do this publicly, for some it might take a few hours, for some longer.Those thoughts although not always heard, are sensed , felt and and are therefore powerful. The good and the bad ones.
    I’m not moralising here, but we need to stop. If the atrocities of yesterday in Norway mean anything, it should be that we need to focus on what we have in common, rather than differences. Simple thinking I know, but sometimes the simplest things are the most effective.
    May i suggest we all take a couple of minutes to say to ourselves and with true intention to all the CE family :
    I’m sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you.
    Release all negative emotions and let go, please.
    Thank you, with love, Joanne